yankees13 Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 hey everyone I know it's been a while. My ex left me about 3 weeks ago and said he wanted to raise his children with his ex wife. He told me it was something that he had to do and he had a hard time with the decision. The whole thing never really made sense to me, and he continued contact with me and even tried to hook up with me. The reason it didn't make sense is his stories just weren't adding up. He was divorced from her quite a few years and even had another girlfriend after that who also had his child. Well for weeks he gave me guilt trips about me possibly returning to a guy I dated before. He also made me feel like I was keeping him away from his children and making me feel bad. Well long story short, he acted like it might not work with the ex wife and played that card with me and all along he had his previous girlfriend move in with him. He didn't tell me this, but after asking over and over the deal he told me. I'm more than hurt. I'm crushed. He admitted to being selfish for trying to have us both, but that doesn't mean anything. This has been the longest breakup ever, and I know I should have kept with no contact, but he played the cards right and knew I wanted reconciliation and used it against me. Boogieboy where are you!?
mickleb Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Please do yourself a favour, sweetie, and leave this creep alone. He is a loser. Don't let him drag you down any further. You are worth SO much more. x
boogieboy Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Eh, some times when you break NC it just reinforces what you knew you had to do. So now youre not going to contact him anymore right? That is really slick but wrong of him to use his wife to make you go away. Remember he will only want you as a hookup, but he will continue to act like he wants a relationship. You gotta be strong and do not answer any calls so you cant hear any of his coniving words. He can only have a strangle hold on you if you LET him. How long were you with this guy?
lorilynne Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Y13, I'm so sorry to hear about this creep of an ex you have. Sounds a lot like mine...we should compare notes, heck, might even be the same guy! lol He sounds like an extremely selfish jerk who is using his kids as an excuse to hurt people...again, A LOT like my ex. I agree that you should start NC immediately and stick to it! Good luck & keep us posted.
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