mighty_mouse_018 Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Okay so I usually hate it when people create these threads but something has been bugging me lately. Recently my friend said that in senior year a group of girls told him that I was the hottest guy in my grade at school (all-boys school) judging by our school photos. When he told me this I was like, "You're such a liar dude!!". Anyways it’s been a while since school finished and I have probably changed a lot but my friend to this day still insists that he didn't make it all up and that he was telling the truth. I don't know what to believe but he has got me really really curious about the way I look!! I can't ask any girls I know because they probably wouldn’t give me a straight answer. So I thought the best way to get the truth would be from strangers over the internet….yay!! This dating forum seems like a pretty decent place to put this type of question and I can see a lot of ladies visit. 1: http://www.flickr.com/photos/32138399@N07/3761606031/ 2: http://www.flickr.com/photos/32138399@N07/3761606203/ 3: http://www.flickr.com/photos/32138399@N07/3762412202/ 4: http://www.flickr.com/photos/32138399@N07/3762408272/ 5: http://www.flickr.com/photos/32138399@N07/3762407356/ So ladies please tell me what you think: - How would you rate me?? Am I attractive? Could I have been the hottest guy in my grade?? - Which pics are the best?? - Also how old do you think I am?? Thanks for your replies everyone!!
amymarieca Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Sure, you are a cutie and I think you already know that. Why do you need our validation?
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Sure, you are a cutie and I think you already know that. Why do you need our validation? I agree with Amy. You don't need OUR validation. As long as you're secure in yourself, that's what matters. I don't care who on here wants to claim that confidence doesn't matter - only looks. BS. I have seen some straight-up unattractive guys get all kinds of chicks. And they weren't even rich. It was CONFIDENCE. But I will say this - not a fan of pic #3. It doesn't seem to be your "style." I like your more rugged look in the other pics.
Author mighty_mouse_018 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Sure, you are a cutie and I think you already know that. Why do you need our validation? No I really don't know that I am a cutie and that's why it's not really validation for me. This is all very new to me because I've never actually been complimented by anyone on my looks and I also find it extremely hard to judge my own looks! So when my friend made this remark it made me think way way more about how my physical appearance appeals to females and now I'm just SO curious to know if he was lying or not. If anything he made me more aware of my physical presentation in front of girls (call that insecurity about my looks if you want...I don't really care). I have no idea what to believe though so that's why you need to help me out (I'm not fishing for compliments just to boost my self esteem!! ) Everyone knows deep down that looks actually matter!! Maybe not ALL the time but it's usually what first impressions are based on unfortunately!! Call me superficial or shallow but I think that's the truth. Also I'm pretty sure that I come off as a very confident person in front of guys and girls and this is the way it has been my whole life (without knowing if I am physically attractive or not). Whether I know if I'm attractive or if I'm not attractive will not really change the way I act in front of anyone! But I will say this - not a fan of pic #3. It doesn't seem to be your "style." I like your more rugged look in the other pics. Hmmmm in pic #3 I was clean shaven and out of all the pics I'm am the youngest in that one! That was the school pic that I was supposedly judged on against the rest of my grade. I think I look semi-babyish in that one. Btw, to the two that answered, thanks for your input!! Highly appreciated!
Lucky_One Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Cute, but young. I assume the hair sticking up thing is a generational one, so I think it works for you for a few more years. You may want to think about some eyebrow grooming. Ask the girl who cuts your hair what to do with them.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Oh, yeah - you asked how old you look. 22 or 23.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Cute, but young. I assume the hair sticking up thing is a generational one, so I think it works for you for a few more years. You may want to think about some eyebrow grooming. Ask the girl who cuts your hair what to do with them. I kinda like the hair. :| He sort of reminds me of Ryan Sampson from Sirius Hits 1. I think that guy is in his 30's, or something, and he has the stick-up hair. I think it looks good on the right person. I'd say it probably has to do more with the region of the country you live in than anything. I believe Hits 1 is out of NYC. I've seen PLENTY of this hair-do on other guys that are not in their early 20's.
shadowplay Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Why is LS suddenly devolving into hotornot.com? I think you're nice looking, but not my type. You look very Italian, and I'm not crazy about ethnic looking guys despite being half Italian. Go figure. You look like Jason Wahler from Laguna Beach. I can see a lot of girls finding you attractive. In terms of styling, I'd definitely lose the soul patch and the choker. They're pretty out of date. Also consider toning down the hair. You look 18-21 to me.
Author mighty_mouse_018 Posted August 1, 2009 Author Posted August 1, 2009 In terms of styling, I'd definitely lose the soul patch and the choker. They're pretty out of date. Also consider toning down the hair. You look 18-21 to me. The choker went a while back. #1 and #2 are pics from a long time ago. #4 and #5 are the more recent pics and I really like my hair in these pics...it is toned down quite nicely hehe. As for the soul patch (AKA "flavour saver"), I shave it off regularly and grow it every now and then because I HATE shaving there!! Good guess with the age (that's sort of reassuring for me in a way) and there is no way I'm touching my eyebrows!! That's me and I ain't changing them!! Sure they are thick/bold but I really think they are made to look a lot worse in these pics (#5 is a more accurate and true representation of my eyebrows).
LovieDove24 Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 You're hot, and please don't be one of those dudes who plucks his eyebrows, it looks gay. Lol. No but seriously, Im gonna go ahead and assume you're a shy guy because most cocky, football-playing type guys know when they're hot and usually act like it. I find it very endearing when a guy is hot and humble enough to not necessarily notice.
wontgohomewou Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 You're hot, and please don't be one of those dudes who plucks his eyebrows, it looks gay. Lol. No but seriously, Im gonna go ahead and assume you're a shy guy because most cocky, football-playing type guys know when they're hot and usually act like it. I find it very endearing when a guy is hot and humble enough to not necessarily notice. I pluck my eyebrows and I'm not gay. Got to keep the eyebrows looking sexy, know what I'm sayin?
Lucky_One Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Grooming your eyebrows doesn't mean plucking or waxing into some perfectly arched thing. It's just a matter of keeping them tidy and less bushy. You DON'T want to be one of the guys whose eyebrows curl over the top edge of their glasses. The inner corners of your brows almost look as though they are reaching out to their brethren on the other side to hold hands and give you the dreaded unibrow. Not a good look, unless you are on a Geico commercial. ("Flavor savers" usually means "chili dog smell savers", unless your tongue is long enough to really reach down there and taste afterwards.)
Lucky_One Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 No lie - I was at the beach 2 months ago, and met this man who was in his mid-50's. His eyebrows curled about a quarter to half an inch OVER the tops of his sunglasses, and he had little bits of dandruff or skin cells or hair grossness dotted on his glasses lenses. How the heck he could see out of them was beyond me. Grossed me right out. I wanted to pull him aside and tell him that his eyebrows were Reason #1 that he was still single, 10 years post-divorce. That is why I suggested getting the girl at the hair salon to give pointers. They are usually really really good about giving a light trim (will get those nasty ear hairs, too) so that a guy doesn't go all Neanderthal as he ages, but light enough that he isn't metrosexual (unless he wants to be metrosexual).
bac Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Your have only the face pics, but for a man the body/full height pic is important. Your height, weight and inches are important as well to judge your looks.
Author mighty_mouse_018 Posted August 2, 2009 Author Posted August 2, 2009 ("Flavor savers" usually means "chili dog smell savers", unless your tongue is long enough to really reach down there and taste afterwards.) Of course my tongue is long enough to reach down there!! About only having face pics...I know I have a good looking body so that's why I didn't really want to put a body pic up. I have a very thin waste but broad shoulders and a naturally muscular body. When I tell people i've never worked out a day in my life, they freak out. I know that I am also very fit and coordinated and have been told that I am charismatic. My only downfall with my body is my height...only 5' 4"
doushenka Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 You're adorable. I'd hit it. You could be anywhere between twenty-two and thirty. Good luck.
bac Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 Of course my tongue is long enough to reach down there!! About only having face pics...I know I have a good looking body so that's why I didn't really want to put a body pic up. I have a very thin waste but broad shoulders and a naturally muscular body. When I tell people i've never worked out a day in my life, they freak out. I know that I am also very fit and coordinated and have been told that I am charismatic. My only downfall with my body is my height...only 5' 4" There is one more number you forgot to mention which is important for male's looks. In general, it is from 4 to 9.
bac Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Sorry about my last comment. It was a bad sarcasm considering how young and naive you are. Truthfully, that number does not matter at all.
Author mighty_mouse_018 Posted August 3, 2009 Author Posted August 3, 2009 There is one more number you forgot to mention which is important for male's looks. In general, it is from 4 to 9. Hahhahha....i said my only downfall is my height!! The rest of me is good
Green Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 This thread is your problem... Who cares what the ladies think! Back in high school no girls had a conversation about how I was the hottest guy in the grade... but I do remember a girl groaning disapointedly when she found out I was going to be in her English class. Alot of girls have said mean things about the way I look... But the girls I've dated have always said really nice stuff about the way I look. My girl friend is hotter then hell in every dimension and we love eachother. I don't need to put her picture or my picture in a forum to re afirm that. I hope it was fun for you to hear people say nice things about the way you look but caring about what people think is your problem in the first place. Take it from me what women want are honest, genuinely confident men. If your honest and confident and respectful to yourself and others you'll have no trouble getting the woman of your dreams! good luck and never question your height, or atleast if you find yourself questioning it, just stop
Author mighty_mouse_018 Posted August 3, 2009 Author Posted August 3, 2009 This thread is your problem... Who cares what the ladies think! Back in high school no girls had a conversation about how I was the hottest guy in the grade... but I do remember a girl groaning disapointedly when she found out I was going to be in her English class. Alot of girls have said mean things about the way I look... But the girls I've dated have always said really nice stuff about the way I look. My girl friend is hotter then hell in every dimension and we love eachother. I don't need to put her picture or my picture in a forum to re afirm that. I hope it was fun for you to hear people say nice things about the way you look but caring about what people think is your problem in the first place. Take it from me what women want are honest, genuinely confident men. If your honest and confident and respectful to yourself and others you'll have no trouble getting the woman of your dreams! good luck and never question your height, or atleast if you find yourself questioning it, just stop hahahaha you make me laugh...Who said I had a problem in the first place?? Did I say I had any trouble with women?? Also, are you a female?? Do I care what you think?? NO! Hehe just kidding...seriously thanks for your answer and your advice. I respect your opinion and you are right. If I was perfect then I wouldn't care about my appearance but the truth is that curiosity got the best of me due to someone else putting many ideas in my head. There are many things we can't change (like height) so why even bother worrying about them...we should all do the best with what we have been given! Also it is very very difficult to not care about what other people think, especially the opposite sex!!
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