broken_promises Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 I got this voicemail from the ex from over the weekend: "Hi, it's me. Jeez... I know we haven't talked since, you know, you moved out and um... I'm sorry. So, give me a call when you're ready... catch up on how each other is doing if you want to. I hope you're doing well. So, yeah... hopefully we'll talk soon, okay?" It has been just over a month... almost completely NC (only sent one email in reply to an email from him, to which he followed with one reply) and I was just starting to stop feeling the compulsion to call/email/check his FB, etc. (Although I haven't done any of that since just after the breakup, it was really tough there for a while with wanting to so strongly!) I don't want to talk to him now. The only time I wanted to was right after we broke up to do the whole "I miss you" thing. When that didn't happen (and when he started talking to his stupid FB crush from high school on our first night apart) I just realized so concretely that it was over and he was moving on immediately. It has been a really difficult month, but I'm finally getting through it. Even when I heard his voice, he didn't sound like himself and I didn't even feel like talking to him. I certainly don't want to "catch up" with him. I was thinking of just sending an email back saying this? How do I respond?
boogieboy Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Dont respond at all. Theres no need to. You dont want to hear from him, you dont want to catch up, and he most likely doesnt want to try again, so dont even bother calling him back, email, nothing. If you talk to him, it will accomplish nothing, and you will just feel worse than you do now. DOnt worry about being rude, remember he dumped you to be with this other girl right away. You owe him nothing.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 remember he dumped you to be with this other girl right away. Topic over.
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