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Hi All,

 

Its been 5 weeks since my ex and I broke up, 2 weeks I NC him.

He has also not called me since..

 

Just saw his pictures on Face Book thru another fren and is feelin very depressed.

 

Cannot stop thinking of him and missing him.. hmm.. so painful..

But I will not call him or text him, hence, I am writing on this forum, to see if anyone is feelin the same way as me now..

 

Its so painful...

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I'm not there no, but I have been there. I'm not sure what you mean by looked at pics through a friend? Does this mean you went to the friends page and saw through there, or your friend was a gopher for you?

 

If so, tell your friend that you don't want to hear/know what is going on with your ex. If not, trust me you might think it's bringing you comfort to look at those pictures but it is not. You are only prolonging your hurt and pain and grief.

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hey.. .. I saw his pic because I was checking out my friend's photos.. and I accidentally saw him on the photos.

 

Yeah, guess i have to stop looking at his pictures.. Its really painful.. How long did it take to get over your r/s and how long was it?

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r/s was a year. As for how long it took to get over it..6 months technically..but after I ACCEPTED that we were over for good..took me about 6 weeks. I would have moved on sooner had I not held on to false hope for 4 and a half months prior. That's just what it took though to get fed up with hurting and finally stop looking at the pics, stop talking and analyzing etc etc.

 

Now I'm with someone who is a better match for me, that I love very much, that I have even a stronger bond with.. :love:.

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oHH.. haix. my r/s was 4 yrs.. good dam good 4 yrs.. but he just suddenly wanted out.. I wish I could so strong to totally keep him out of my life.. But . I am still struggling.

 

How old are you?. and how long later did u find ur new partner?

 

For me.. I am just totally afraid of loving again.. Seems to me like he was the best. Totally sucks for me now..

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It's only been five weeks for you, so it's normal to still be struggling and hurt. As a lot of people here will tell you, it gets easier. You'll grieve the loss of this relationship and go through a variety of emotions, but you'll pull through and it does get a lot better! Trust me, I was in your shoes a few months ago.

 

It's hard to avoid seeing pictures and reminders of your ex on facebook if you two have mutual friends. Have you deleted him as a friend? You should, if you haven't.

 

You and your ex were together a long time! It's going to take awhile for your heart and mind to heal, but I'm glad to hear you're doing NC. That's the best route to take.

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Hi Tori,

 

He does not have face book. But I do have his MSN contact... should i delete it?

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oHH.. haix. my r/s was 4 yrs.. good dam good 4 yrs.. but he just suddenly wanted out.. I wish I could so strong to totally keep him out of my life.. But . I am still struggling.

 

How old are you?. and how long later did u find ur new partner?

 

For me.. I am just totally afraid of loving again.. Seems to me like he was the best. Totally sucks for me now..

 

Um let's see...I met my current partner around the end of december..but at the time I wasn't interested in him for various reasons..I was over my other ex like I said by the time his birthday came (november 16) I wasn't bothered about it or sad and weepy etc. But I technically had been without him since the first week of June 08, I didn't start to develop a real connection to current partner until I think probably late January 09.

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