kimbop Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 My wonderfully immature ex has dumped me again. This was our second go around so right now, I'm fuming with anger but not so much hurt as I was the first time around. A few days ago, he texts "I don't think we will work out." When I requested to see him or at least talk to him on the phone, he responded with "I can't. I'm so cut up inside." Huh? WTF!!!! All throughout the night we text because he refuses to answer my calls. He writes inane dribble like "You're too good for me, you're the most beautiful person I know, I can't imagine my life without you, I have issues in my head," and other things I can't remember because I spent the rest of the night drunk erasing everything that mentions him on my phone. After that, he doesn't text again. He said that he would call me the next day, but of course he didn't. I'm fine with the break up, but I'm so freakin angry with the level of disrespect he's showing me! AARRRGGHHH!!! To think I wasted almost 2 years of my life loving him unconditionally. Most importantly I didn't get the opportunity to chew him out for his cowardice. How the hell do I get rid of this rage towards him? I went to see a psychic and she said that my chakra holes need to be opened up because I have a negative aura (caused by him probably). Uh huh. So a psychic did nothing. What else? And how do I get rid of the man-hating energy that has tainted my soul?
aloneanddepressed Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Sounds similar to the character my ex was. Well the line about him saying "you're too good for me". That right there indicates he is highly insecure, and has major issues. Very immature and confused. Also, telling you he can't imagine life without you, then treating you like this. He then is disrespecting you and not allowing you time to speak your mind. He doesn't talk to you again. That is so typical of this type of personality. At least he did tell you it was over. My ex didn't , but he did say he would talk to me later , and never called again. I don't know how you can get over the anger. I'm still furious after what happened to me. How can you not be angry when they don't let you even talk to them. My wonderfully immature ex has dumped me again. This was our second go around so right now, I'm fuming with anger but not so much hurt as I was the first time around. A few days ago, he texts "I don't think we will work out." When I requested to see him or at least talk to him on the phone, he responded with "I can't. I'm so cut up inside." Huh? WTF!!!! All throughout the night we text because he refuses to answer my calls. He writes inane dribble like "You're too good for me, you're the most beautiful person I know, I can't imagine my life without you, I have issues in my head," and other things I can't remember because I spent the rest of the night drunk erasing everything that mentions him on my phone. After that, he doesn't text again. He said that he would call me the next day, but of course he didn't. I'm fine with the break up, but I'm so freakin angry with the level of disrespect he's showing me! AARRRGGHHH!!! To think I wasted almost 2 years of my life loving him unconditionally. Most importantly I didn't get the opportunity to chew him out for his cowardice. How the hell do I get rid of this rage towards him? I went to see a psychic and she said that my chakra holes need to be opened up because I have a negative aura (caused by him probably). Uh huh. So a psychic did nothing. What else? And how do I get rid of the man-hating energy that has tainted my soul?
t0ri Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 I was dumped by text also, the 2nd time around. First time he dumped me by changing his relationship status to single on social-networking sites! What a quality guy I had! I don't know why your ex would tell you that crap after he dumped you. Mine told me similar things right BEFORE he dumped me, but then refused to talk to me after he dumped me and told me he wanted me out of his life forever. If I were you, I'd go NC and if he does try to contact you for whatever reason, I'd tell him you're done with his bull **** and to leave you alone! Anyway, you can't just rid yourself of rage magically. BUT, you can vent that anger towards things - like exercise, or like Moo said, writing. But it's good you're feeling anger and you feel ok with this breakup right now, rather than deep depression, like I felt right after I was dumped. It's been 3 months that my ex and I have been over for good, and I'm still pissed off for the same reasons you are. I don't think about it nearly as much, but it really infuriates me when I do.
gavinus Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 The best advice I can give you is to do nothing!!!! Go NC, NC says so much!!! It is normal to feel rage etc, write a email but do not send it! Write the name of your ex on a piece of paper, write the good stuff on one side, the bad on the other, then burn it!! It will make you feel better. Remember he knows you know about his text, but he does not know how u r doing!! Kepp it that way, and keep the power!, good luck
wow123 Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Dumping you in the way he did is rediculous. On the other hand, him not wanting to talk after breaking up is actually doing you a favor. But he should have spoke to you about it.
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