imhurt Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Okay, I think I screwed it all up:(. I eneded it with my boyfriend of 5 years 2 weeks ago, and he finally agreed that it just was not working. I accepted it at first, because I really felt like the relationship was not going anywhere and everything was always on his terms. Well we didn't talk for almost 2 weeks then I texted. Just about my stuff that he has at his condo...well he said he still has it and will hold onto it blah blah blah... Well he was so nonchalant and indifferent, it kind of hurt. I had a terrible couple of weeks without him. So that made me crazy, to think he had moved on so fast and was not affected. Well over this last weekend he helped my Brothers and I move out of our places, so I went to my Brothers, knowing he was there and we spent the whole Saturday together, I rode in his truck (he wanted me to) and then at the end of the night I ended going to his place and sleeping over and then we spent all today together. While I was sleeping next to him, he didn't even get close to me. Which he is not big into cuddling, me either, but you would think in a small way he would want to. We talked a tiny bit about what was going on between us, but he never seems to want to discuss it, so I try not to push the issue. I really want to be together with him....my question is, does he? And how do I get him back? I asked him if we could try counseling again, he said maybe. But he didn't want to go to the same counselor we had before, and that was all he said about it. I don't want to bring it up to him again, I think if I look to desperate it is a huge turn off, but I want him to know I love him and really want it to work. I also dont want him to move on. I want him for myself....I would die if he started dating someone else. Any advice out there??? I could use some!!!!!
LovesHangover Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Tell him how you feel even the part about not wanting to seem desperate. Desperate and vulnerable are not the same thing. Be really straight about everything and heae him out. Good luck.-LovesHangoverPS: Be careful on LS! Many on here have it out for us dumpers. LOL!
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