troyweiss77 Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 for some reason im a jelious person. i get jelious when she is talking to guys online or if it seems like she is checking a dude out. i dont think she would cheat. but the thought pops up?does anyone have any advice or help to over come jeliousy
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t181878/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t190619/ Don't do what this guy does to his GF, or you're going to lose her. The more jealous you are, the more you will push her away. Jealousy is a good way to say, "I don't trust you to stay faithful and committed to me because I'm not good enough." So in a way, you insult them and also insult yourself in one breath. I think the only way to get past it is to get some security in yourself. The more confident you are that you are a "catch," the less you will worry about losing that other person. And even if you DO lose that other person, it won't matter. Because not only are you good enough alone, but you're SO good, it'll be easy to find the next woman. So quit tying your identity up in another person or it's going to drive the both of you crazy. So start working on yourself - do whatever you can to improve yourself. You'll gain some confidence, but also show her what she'd be missing if she left.
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