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The answer is no. Last night unattractive women were hitting on me. This means my personality is not the problen.

 

I need someone with a good body and a nice skirt. My family has had an incredibly strong body for generations. We're distance and middle distance runners with much physical strength. I cannot go out with a fat woman it would do my physical prowess no justice.

 

My Children would be doomed to a life worse than my own and I cannot do that to them.

 

I fear these are my problems :

 

I am far too large. I am not fat but I am abnormally large.

 

I am very difficult to read and I am very good at hiding my feelings from others

 

I often appear hostile when that is not the case.

 

I am stuck in an akward position where I have a body and a mind that is too good for most women but not good enough for the good ones because I have several indictors on my person that do not do the quality justice.

 

For example.

 

A broken cheekbone means the left side of my fact is slightly lower down.

I look far too european but I am not so this excludes me from european girls but also puts me off side with some anglos.

In addition these features are not characteristically handsome.

I am somewhat of a brute, which does not fit in well with the modern persona of what an intelligent person should look like. This has also created barriers to employment that I have over come I am not a big shot but I have a good job.

 

So far the only things that have worked are to be super fit and I do not have the time to maintain that. However, when I am in that state it seems I do not have to go to women as they will come to me.

 

In addition and in summary.

 

I lack social skills to network women long term.

I do not have a body of support to bring women to me.

I look older than my age (26).

I often find it difficult to identify situations where it would be practical to ask out a woman.

 

I am far too large. I am not fat but I am abnormally large.

 

I am very difficult to read and I am very good at hiding my feelings from others

 

I often appear hostile when that is not the case.

 

I am stuck in an akward position where I have a body and a mind that is too good for most women but not good enough for the good ones because I have several indictors on my person that do not do the quality justice.

 

Please help.

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I need someone with a good body and a nice skirt.

 

Whoa I guess that leaves the Charlies' Angels out then since they're always wearing pants. :lmao:

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I know women are attracted to confidence, and since im a man it could be me but your post seems to drip with arrogance, not confidence. :confused:

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I'm convinced this guy is a fake. He always posts the same type of messages - totally mysoginistic and obnoxious. People always get pissed at him and try to help him see where his real problems are... he gets angry and nasty in return. I say ignore him.

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If your over 200 pounds, you are fat.

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I think dropping a bunch of that arrogance might solve your problem to be honest.

 

Oh ya, and I hate when people talk about fat people like they don't have the same status in life as other people. Maybe they aren't attractive to YOU, but you don't have to go as far as being incredibly rude.

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Why don't you post some pictures so we can see if you're ugly or not?

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The answer is no. Last night unattractive women were hitting on me. This means my personality is not the problen.

 

 

Well, now that we've got that out of the way you might consider location and venue...

 

and here we are at the same place as last time :laugh:

 

Looking European is only a flaw in smaller towns - you're probably a hit in medium to large sized cities. You claim you've got a body and mind that are too good for most women. If your self-assesment is correct, you shouldn't go for most women. Go for the good ones, but not the best ones - as you said you're not there yet.

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What was the purpose of posting your stupid fabricated question? If your family has been doing distance running for generations, as you claim, then you would most likely have been raised with a good diet and would have have enough self-discipline to not become a barrel-ass.

 

If you are ugly and obese, then you'd better ratchet down your expectations unless you are very wealthy.

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No you shouldn't.

 

You're obese, socially awkward, sexist and arrogant, you shouldn't settle for anyone who's not a perfect 10 and got her sh*t together. Duh!

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