enchanted771 Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 I saw my bf the other night and out of the blue says i am amazing, and everything he likes about me. Then later about how incredible i am. The days following he has been texting less and seems a bit distant. I could feel the love when i am with him so i am so confused!
Hkizzle Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Well how long have you dated him? You do know many guys say things they know women want to hear right? Or maybe he's just been busy, but the change in amount of attention he gives you feels like a big change.
boogieboy Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Back off a little. He might either feels he sees you too much, or he is seeing someone else. So let him initiate all communication for a while and back off a lil. Then you will see where you stand. Then if its bad, you will have to talk to him.
mammax3 Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 I agree, back up a bit and don't chase him asking for more texting or attention or whatever (not saying that you would, but that is a frequent response) Sometimes men will say sweet things and figure that it has some sort of magic staying power and therefore they can ease off a bit because the woman is reassured that they're liked. Whereas many women would want to hear it all day everyday.
norajane Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Odds are, he's feeling a little embarrassed at sharing his feelings so openly. A lot of guys have trouble expressing deeper emotions, so if he did it, he might be freaking out that he said so much. If he's not one of those guys and is very open about his feelings, then maybe he was hurt that you weren't as open with him about yours? What did you say when he told you all that? In either case, don't get all anxious and pushy. Just be the sweet, wonderful person that you are, the one he said all those nice things about.
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