CARL45 Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 I recently went to a sporting event with a women I liked who happened to be a few years older than me. While there I made the fatal mistake of being to frank with her on things such as the fact that I rarely drink a lot and do not believe in smoking marijuanna(she is what might be described as a hippy). I also made the mistake of describing myself as passive too much. Even when we had a little time before the game and showed her the correct way to swing the tennis rackett I rather stupidly didn't take advantage of the situation. By the end of are time together everything seemed fine, until a friend of mine told me rather in a peace meal style that she had thought I was innocent. Later I found out that this meant that I was seen in her eye's as not being dating material. My friend said I should have pulled on her hair. I need advice, please help?
smookie Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 I think from readin what you put, you were who you are on the date. No matter how much you like her... Alot of people (including myself) have changed for the other person only to resent myself in the end. You stated what you believe in and you were your own person, If in fact she does not click with what type of person you are then it would have ended or you would have changed youself... (you would not be happy in the end)
Hkizzle Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Well what do you want? If it's just casual sex it's best not to be brutally honest. If it's a long term relationship, do you really think lying about what you like or don't like is wise? Being yourself is the most important thing in a relationship because no one can act forever. If you want to salvage this situation though forget it. When a woman's written a guy off you can't get back in. The only way is to disappear for a few months and when you see her again you're a totally different person.
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