wow123 Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Got a second chance. She was still confused not knowing what she wants. Told her I am done. No time for games or confusion. I am moving on. No idea why she came back if she is still confused but she did and messed me up again. Told her off. No response.
Thaddeus Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Good for you. Congrats. Remember, maintain NC all the way.
Peanut9330 Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I'm glad u stood up for yourself, that's important otherwise she would think that she could get away with anything cuz you would always take her back.
Author wow123 Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 That's exactly what I learned by the things she was saying. I'm confused. Don't know what I want. I'm not ready. I thought, if I said those things to her she'd be gone. Why am I still hanging around. NO WAY!
whichwayisup Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Could be the cat/mouse game? She kind of wanted you back, but not enough to put in the required effort. You did the right thing. HER loss, not yours. Heal well and I hope you find someone special who is going to love you back!
GuttedIRL Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 I am currently trying to build up the courage and get into such a position to do exactly the same thing. Unfortunately theres financial reasons why I cant get her out of my house immediately or she and my kids would be gone. I know now she came back for the roof over her head. NOT for me and to give 100% to us as she claimed. Bitch.
Author wow123 Posted July 26, 2009 Author Posted July 26, 2009 Well I found out there was another guy in the picture. We were back to talking and seeing eachother occasionally. Did I do the right thing?
CaliGuy Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Well I found out there was another guy in the picture. We were back to talking and seeing eachother occasionally. Did I do the right thing? Of course she was confused. Anytime I've heard that there WAS another guy in the picture. She said she was confused because she wasn't sure who she wanted, him or you. I'm not sure what you told her but walking away was the best thing. She was stringing you along keeping you on "Standby" in case the other guy didn't work out. Not sure about you, but I refuse to be someone's second choice.
Author wow123 Posted July 26, 2009 Author Posted July 26, 2009 That's exactly how I felt Caliguy...she had me in the bullpen. She should know that she wants me...just like I know that I want her.
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