hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 went out with my ex last nite. i cant seem to let go. i was doin fine all wk then i called her friday and she came over the house. we chatted a lil then walked to a restaurant and had dinner. later that nite we went to the movies and saw "angels and demons' -great movie by the way. Anyway so we get back to my house i kiss her but instead of leavin it there i get weak and explain to her how we messed up the relationship and understandin why she is not in love with me. i realize that i am not ready to be with her like dat and even still we normally dont talk unless I call. i know if a gurl is really interested in u she would make moves to let u know but my ex hasnt yet i need patience and not wait on her either. yes i am in love with her and i want her back but i know she talks to other guys and sees other guys i havent been with anyone for over 2 months since her. I hate the wkends cuz i miss her and want to be around her. NC is killin me i know i am progressing but being with her still makes me weak a little. tried a different approach yesterday tried to be more firm but in the end i couldnt keep the emotions in check. Maintain everyone and take charge of ur emotions!!!!!!!!
Exit Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Yeah I'm in the same boat as you. Contact is over today. I kept hoping, kept trying, she kept giving me just enough hope, but it's all been pointless.
wow123 Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 That's what happened to me. She made sure she kept me around but im finally sick of it. NC started today. I feel for ya fellas.
Exit Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I was setting myself up for more "stringing along" by telling her a few other things I wanted back, then I decided to text her "forget it, if you want to be a decent person you can figure out when where and how to give stuff back. i cant chase you any more. bye". I'm going to the therapist on Monday and I have to get over this.
wow123 Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Exit, I will be going on Tuesday. We're in the same spot man. It's unreal how bad things can get. One day I love you I wanna try again...a few days later I don't know what I want.
NopeNah Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Yea..you can't talk to them when your still wanting to make it work. Your emotions are still all over the place. I told my ex it was either him or me when she kept going back and forth. Then went hardcore NC for about a month or so. Started dating several diferent girls and living life. Now she's back and has told the other guy she wants to make it work with me. He's now being the harrasing,needy,emotional,ect..wreck, I once was. Although we are not 100% back together, she had his # blocked on her phone at my request. I still don't know what the hell I want to do with this..just going to take it slow and have no expectations at this point.
Thaddeus Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I hate the wkends cuz i miss her and want to be around her. NC is killin me i know i am progressing but being with her still makes me weak a little. tried a different approach yesterday tried to be more firm but in the end i couldnt keep the emotions in check. Maintain everyone and take charge of ur emotions!!!!!!!! I'm going to the therapist on Monday and I have to get over this. I will be going on Tuesday. We're in the same spot man. It's unreal how bad things can get. One day I love you I wanna try again...a few days later I don't know what I want.To all three of you (and others in the same boat who cruise through this thread), know that one thing is for certain: You WILL get through this. It's not a matter of if, it's just a matter of when. I know full well that saying so doesn't help at the moment, and I also know full well that each of you might consider your situation unique and somehow different than anyone else. But the fact remains. You can and will get through this. Trust me on this, ok?
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