mh969 Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 how does one cope, when it's obvious that my life will never be as good as it once was..i've lost more than i can ever have again...my wife was educated, motivated and amazingly beautiful...she turned heads wherever we went..she looked great in her work suits or even in just t-shirts and shorts...her family was so good, no drama..amazing sisters and parents that i respected without fail..we never fought, never yelled..just didn't respect her like i should have, spent 5 months in counseling and my counselor stated that she had never had a marriage fall apart for the reasons mind did... my wife works for a major league sporting team, the envy of everyones' eye. i work for a marketing firm, i thought all was well... it's been 7 months almost and the pain is getting worse day by day..she's filed papers already and have been to court once so far... i've lost everything that was good and pure in my world...i've realized that my life will never be as wonderful as it once was.. i have 2 sons from a prior marriage (awful as it was) and they are torn to pieces over this...i hate what i've done to myself, my sons and my family as they truly adored her... i've lost weight, can't eat, can't sleep and am just simply at a loss over this... there were no broken vows..no nothing... how do you continue when u know that nothing can ever be as good as it was? i cannot believe that i'm the only one who feels this way.. how ever could i ever bring another person into my sons lives, when she was so wonderful to them, her family adored them... when u've lost the greatest gift, how do u stay strong? surely there are those who must feel this way.. Link to post Share on other sites
Thaddeus Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 Hello mh969 and welcome to the boards. Let me guess: She dropped the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" speech on you, didn't she? Link to post Share on other sites
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