LostInLimbo Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Not saying NC will work the same for everyone, but look at my posts, from day one, I broke the NC rule, hoping to use it as a tool to get my Ex back, oh it got her back and I broke the NC Rule, it turned out to be a nightmare, so I went back to NC and here's what happened to me. I went Full NC again after that first Nightmare,Disconnected her Cell dropped ALL her clothes and belongings off on the porch and drove away (Never done that before), after I received the Text Messages, We Are Done, and another saying We Have Nothing in Common so don't worry, I won't contact you, this after my ex has broken up with me 3 times and we tried to work it again, thats why I broke the NC Rule, all those times continuing to pay for her cell. Well Heres what Happened, I received a couple of Messages, saying call me, , then the next day, it said CALL ME WHEN YOU CAN STOP IGNORING ME!, so I continued to stay NC, not to win her back, but to get my life back in order and emotions in check.. Now Here is where it gets weird, I kept getting text messages every 3 or 4 hrs for 3 days as well as my phones were ringing NON Stop from her, I kept thinking of her msg We Are Done! that kept me strong and then dirty pool came into it, she had her kids text me from there phone, knowing I loved them, but I continued to stay strong, still thinking We Are Done! She said Finally I will keep calling you until u talk to me, if you don't I will be at your house (that got creepy, but still kept NC) I finally broke and Txtd her saying I HAVE NO REASONS AT ALL TO CALL YOU, I got a reply saying So thats the way its going to be, I still kept NC, then another one sent to me, stating Just tell me if you don't wanna see me or the Kids, Still Staying NC and my last text from her was 4 days ago, with some stupid thing she remembered we did... STILL STAYING NC and Seeing someone now, NC worked for me, but I can't say it will work for everyone depends on the individual, Im just glad it worked for me, as each day goes by I get Stronger with NC. LiL
Thomas X Forever Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 IF it's only been a few days, then get ready. It may be raining a bit, but a hurricane is coming
Author LostInLimbo Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 IF it's only been a few days, then get ready. It may be raining a bit, but a hurricane is coming I have been reading some of your replies and love them actually, in all honesty, there too the point.....as for this reply u left me, I hope your wrong for once..... lol LiL
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