yourfavoriteweapon Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Okay, so just recently I fell in complete like with one of my landlords. Well technically he's not a landlord, but he works at the rent place of where I rent my apartment. He's incredibly cute and I can't get him out of my mind. It's really crazy. He's not that much older than me so its not like I'm crushing on a married man. He's always smiling at me which makes me melt. We have only spoke a few times. Once when he was fixing up the yard of our apartment and another time when he showed me the apartment. Other than that, it's just smiles when I go into the rent office and I know you may think I am crazy, but I have a feeling he's genuine. I can't get him off my mind. He seems shy every time he says "hi" and I find it so cute. My question is: what could I do to get his attention some more? How do I get him to be my "friend." What are some excuses/ideas to talk to him and get to know him? Help guys, I'm going crazy. I have a crush on someone I barely know!!! AH! =)
westernxer Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Tell him your pipe's busted, and if he can come inside and check it out. LOL
Hkizzle Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I am going to tell you something that pisses many of my female friends off. You can't chase a man, it generally backfires. The reason for this is because attraction is created by seeing value in the other person, and when a woman chases a man that lowers her value. Or worse, if he's a jerk he'll lead her on anyway but only for sex with zero intention of commiting. I didn't set the rules, it's just down to basic human psychology. It's the reason why playing hard to get (moderately) whether you like games or not works. First of all, do you think the guy is a nice guy type or a confident/cocky bad boy type? Many nice guys tend to be shy and think the girl isn't interested even if she is, so can warrant a more direct approach. Bad boys like the chase and you can practically be a bitch and they'll fall for that even more. Do this, give the guy a prolonged look next time from a distance for 3 seconds, so it's obvious you're not just glancing at him, and beam him a sweet smile. A 3 second look and sweet smile is one of the best flirting tools a girl has. That's all a guy needs to give him a green light. If he's not chasing he's either not interested, gay or too dumb to see you're a catch. Invite him to a party or event with lots of other people casually. Do not be specific about a date. Humans are weird, being too direct at the start does not work well.
boogieboy Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 How bout saying hello? he might be to shy to make the initial move.
Author yourfavoriteweapon Posted July 26, 2009 Author Posted July 26, 2009 I think he's a good guy judging from the exterior. He doesn't seem like a bad boy at all. He's kind of shy. But this is all judging on a few moments with him. He always says "hi" to me every time I see him, so that step is already done. I don't usually like to chase a guy. i like them to come to me. Honestly, I get really sick and tired of waiting around for a guy to come to me. Maybe they're not interested or maybe they're too intimidated, who knows? But I don't want to let this thing pass. From the looks of it, I think he may be interested and not to sound conceited, I am usually almost never wrong when it comes to thinking if he's interested. I may be wrong now and reading the signals wrong, but it won't hurt anything but my pride if he rejects me and I am willing to take the risk. I've done the whole smiling thing. He smiles back and (I know, I know), but I see the three lines beside his eye show up meaning he's genuine. (again, i know what you're thinking). he just seems mega shy. I'm trying to think of something daring to do when I turn in my rent next week to him, but I can't think of what.
shunter Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 relax, this is way too easy. end the frustration now !! if you want him to ask you out, just open the door "you seem like a cool guy we should hang out sometime". simple. can you do that ?
Author yourfavoriteweapon Posted August 1, 2009 Author Posted August 1, 2009 Considering there is always someone else working beside him, then no, I couldn't do that.
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