mrgeppetto Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Hey everyone, I just want some advice. I had just met this amazing girl and I have come to realize I liker her a lot. Sadly when we were all hanging out having a couple of drinks she ended up yelling that my friend was hot. I really like her but it seems like she has more of a thing for my friend. She knows I like her because I try to make it obvious but it seems like she just ignores it. It always takes me forever to find a girl I like and every time I do she ends up not liking me, but one of my friends or someone else. The worst part is she is moving to Europe and I am shipping off to the Navy. I just wish i could spend the rest of my summer with her but she lives so far away and has no incentive of coming to where I am. I offered to pick her up but she says I don't have to, even though I want to. I'm sure she would rather hang out with my friend. This is like the worst predicament I could be in. I remember a few days ago when everyone slept over my house, she was sleeping on my couch and I was the last person to sleep because I was cleaning up, she was wearing short shorts and she looked cold so I put a sweater on top of her and the next morning she kept asking everyone who put the sweater on her. I wanted to say it was me but I was too shy, I figured time will tell her or she will realize and figure it out. I have come to the conclusions that I might get her address and I will write to her while I'm in the Navy so I can keep in touch. Hopefully she would not mind me some sailor sending her letters about his life. I guess that is the only thing I can do. She leaves for Europe in a couple of weeks. I already had one girl that got away, I hoped that maybe she would not. I don't want another girl to get away specially her. Sigh.
boogieboy Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 She already friend zoned you, dont waste your energy. You might not even be her type. She already expressed interest in your friend in front of you, so youre not even on the radar. Hanging around and writing her isnt the way to do it especially long distance. Since when you talk to her, she lost any potential attraction for you, the only way to get her to look at you different is to have some girl hanging on you that really likes you in front of her. She has to see that girls find you attractive to see that you have something to offer.
Author mrgeppetto Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 I guess your. But i just cant find another girl to get all over me, shes leaving in a couple of weeks in the middle of the month i think around like the 12 or something.
boogieboy Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 shes moving away permanently? Its a lost cause, Dont worry about her. BTW you are a man, you DONT crush on girls. You get their number on the first encounter after getting to know them a little bit, and you dont worry about the outcome. Then you call to go out. You DONT hang around hoping you will grow on them. You only build the woman up to get disappointed. Understand?
Author mrgeppetto Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 Your right. That is what my dad says. Yes sir. It's just that this kind of stuff hardly happens. Me liking a girl a lot.
boogieboy Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Your right. That is what my dad says. Yes sir. It's just that this kind of stuff hardly happens. Me liking a girl a lot. Sounds like youre not talking to enough girls.
Hkizzle Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I get the same. I never get the girl I really like. On the other hand if I don't care about a girl but just flirting I often find she likes me. This happens to a lot of guys and is documented. It's because if you really like a girl you are subconsciously communicating the following........needy, low value, desperate. A high value man doesn't have to dote over a girl, so self control is very important, and you never let a girl know early on you like her............that's one of the most unseductive things to do.
Author mrgeppetto Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 Yeah that exact same thing happens to me. A girl that a consider a friend ends up liking me. Thanks for the info I appreciate it guys. The only difference in this situation for me is that I have no time to slowly get to know her because she is leaving in a couple of weeks. Its pretty much a lost cause but I just did not want to give up, I figured I would just give it a shot all or nothing.
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