Nedved Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 My ex texts me again just now. For anybody that dose'nt know my story we went out for 4 years and lived together. I helped her so much down the years with her problems and in the end she decided i was no longer good enough for her. Left me one day and did'nt care. went cold and treated me like i was worthless. I was devastated and hurt and so betrayed. After all id' done for her. I knew she'd eventually get in contact when she's feeling down even though she's seeing another guy. He obviously has'nt the same patience i had. To be honest i feel good after replying to her as i waited so long to send her that. She did'nt reply and i d'ont think she will She texted(arrogant short text) 'Hi, call me? i want to be friends so i replyed with this(long expensive text ) Do you know what hurts the most? i was always there for you, helped you when you were down and listened to all your problems when you were upset and then you went cold on me and treated me like i was nothing.Your a selfish person and i'm not angry with you.i feel sorry for you because i'm glad i'm not like you. I don't need a person like you in my life.You only want to be friends to take advantage of my good nature and kind heart. I'l never let you use me again.
bluewolf17 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Neved: Let this be your last communication. Please. Imagine looking back on this breakup a year from now. Don't you want to be able to say that you did what you could, said what you mean, and walked away with some grace and your head high? She had no right to send you that. Really cruel of her. Some might not agree, but I am glad you replied with what you did. Now stop. She probably will reply, and eventually will start saying things just to get a response. Don't do it. Hang in there.
Author Nedved Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 Thanks Bluewolf. i've had a rough couple of days. I met her friend and i asked her how she was and she told me she was seeing a guy i did'nt like to much. And then she texts me that. I'm glad i replyed with the message i sent to but there was a rage inside me to send a far more hurtful message. Even after i sent it i knew she would'nt reply and that annoyed me. maybe i wanted a reply? But i won't text again. Your totally right. I'l only let myself down by getting into a war of words with her and it'l undo all the good work i've put in over the last 2 months. thanks again Bluewolf
Road To Joy Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I agree with bluewolf and I can relate to your situation. My ex had (better said, has) a lot of problems and I was the one to always be there for her. To support her. I was extremely patient with her and went through so much pain for her. I tolerated things most people would have never tolerated. She lied to me for over a year, cheated, and then tried to push me away cause she didn't even have the audacity to breakup with me. It hurts so bad to think of it all. I did all that I did for all that sh*t in return? Didn't even appreciate anything? NC is the best thing. I feel like a hypocrite since I broke mine but your ex sounds so much like mine. Going back to you 'cause she's lonely or 'cause you're the only one who'll put up with her sh*t. 'Cause you're the only one who she can trust with her problems since you're the one who delt with them for so long. We should be buddies. Our situations seem so similar.
Author Nedved Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 Sounds like we went out with twin sisters man!! yeah we certaintly should be buddies. Your ex sounds like the same type of person my ex was. It was all me me me and once she was happy nothing else mattered. I really hate her at the moment and i should'nt because i'm really not that type of person but like your ex she i really put up with a lot down the yearsa and then she just got rid of me like i was nothing. very cold about it to. I can't forgive her rtj. they took advantage of our good nature because we though they were as warm hearted as us. But maybe in the long run we're better off without them.
Road To Joy Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 maybe in the long run we're better off without them. This is the mentality I'm trying to stick with. Repeat in your head, "I dodged a bullet, I dodged a bullet, I dodged a bullet." Hopefully they'll at least miss us someday when they realize we're not like most guys.
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