Heartbroken-idiot Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 ok i had been NC with my ex for just over two weeks when last weekend she made contact with me, and i responded, we have been talking everyday via just email a couple a day here and there, she has been very nice to me not bringing up the past but talking about everything else like stuff we are oding ect ect.... she is in london atm untill tomorrow and she said to me today " I would say do you fancy a trip to London on sat but thats stupid" so i reply with well i could do if you fancied its not long and she says well its upto you really if you feel upto it? so after some debating im unsure, i wanna go to see if anything is there and tbh we spoke on the phone tonight and havnt talked in weeks like that and i dunno if there seems as much there as my brain was making me believe, like she wasnt that nice some of the time, and what is a few hours in london? i know most of you will say no f'ing way would i, but i feel like this is my chance to show her im changing for the better, that i can be someone without and also with her. any ideas because in eed the tickets in the next few hours and to let her know.
boogieboy Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Dont do it. The only way you should do it is if you know for sure that she wants to get back with you. You dont know that yet. Let her wait to see you until she says she wants to try again. She doesnt want to get back with you. If youre not over her, and if you want to get back with her, you should not be communicating with her. Especially not after only 2 weeks NC. DOnt convince yourself that she wants to see the new side of you, she just wants to have someone to hang out with, and she wants to know that you dont hate her so she doesnt have to feel guilty. DONT DO IT! Leave her alone.
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