td0g03 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Recently, I found out my ex of 1.5 years cheated on me. Here is the thing, after the few months she started treating me poorly. And I have been depress since, so I would say... for a whole year I've been depress. We recently broke up after I found out she cheated on me and we tried to talk, but it happened again and she's been lying about so many stuff. It been a off and on ride, but I don't want to come back to her anymore. I'm scared of her and just want to start something fresh with another person. I refuse to bring any sort of "baggage" over into my next relationship. I been cheated twice within the last two relationship and I notice I never carry anything over because I tell myself the next one deserves a fresh start. So my question to you guys, I been single for about 4 months with contact, but I have a date this Saturday and I'm not sure if I should go... What does everyone think? Thanks! (Also, there was so many reasons why the relationship couldn't work, but that was just a one of the big reasons)
Road To Joy Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Recently, I found out my ex of 1.5 years cheated on me. Here is the thing, after the few months she started treating me poorly. And I have been depress since, so I would say... for a whole year I've been depress. We recently broke up after I found out she cheated on me and we tried to talk, but it happened again and she's been lying about so many stuff. It been a off and on ride, but I don't want to come back to her anymore. I'm scared of her and just want to start something fresh with another person. I refuse to bring any sort of "baggage" over into my next relationship. I been cheated twice within the last two relationship and I notice I never carry anything over because I tell myself the next one deserves a fresh start. So my question to you guys, I been single for about 4 months with contact, but I have a date this Saturday and I'm not sure if I should go... What does everyone think? Thanks! (Also, there was so many reasons why the relationship couldn't work, but that was just a one of the big reasons) Your situation sounds SO similar to mine. My ex cheated, too. And she continued on lying and everything. I was and am terrified of her. Thinking about her alone makes my head hurt. As for the date, yeah you should go! If you're at the stage where you can function properly, go. The attention will do you good.
Author td0g03 Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 Your situation sounds SO similar to mine. My ex cheated, too. And she continued on lying and everything. I was and am terrified of her. Thinking about her alone makes my head hurt. As for the date, yeah you should go! If you're at the stage where you can function properly, go. The attention will do you good. Wow, thank you. At least I know I know I'm not alone to deal with this problem. I will go on that date, and I will give her a complete fresh start because I know at the end of the day, she's not my ex.
lizzylizliz Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I'm kinda in the same boat, I've been on three dates with a lovely guy, who makes me feel beautiful and unique....but every time I think about my ex, it's like a headache in my heart. I'm fine when I'm WITH the new guy, I dnt think about my ex at all, and I feel so happy and free...then I'm alone, and the horrible feelings come back. he treated me like such a piece of crap, I don't even know why I'm still bothered...I gave him everything, and he gave me nothing. Now the new guy makes me feel wonderful...so why would I still care???
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