visnaga Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Am I really that ugly? http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/visnaga/Image021-1.jpg
collegekid491 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 No, but with that attitude you may as well be. If your self esteem is that low no girl wants to be your emotional boost Sorry, it sounds harsh, but we get to many of these on here. I've seen ugly, fat, rude, stinky guys walking around with hot girls, so let me be honest and a bit of kindness, you appear to be none of those things, so get out there with some confidence and get your chick!
JustLooking123 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Nope, and you'd look even better if you smiled!
utterer of lies Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Am I really that ugly? http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/visnaga/Image021-1.jpg It's not your looks that turn women off, it's your personality!
kaiser2001 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 No you're not ugly but you do need to smile. You look a bit grumpy and upset on that photo and that is never attractive. Why do you think you're "that ugly"?
Author visnaga Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 I think I am ugly because some girl told me so I am really working hard to make myself look better I have lost around 100 pounds and still trying to lose another 50 Thanks all for your comments I am really better now:rolleyes:
prettybaby Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Nope, you're not ugly at all. That girl sounds like she was simply trying to hurt your feelings; and I guess it worked.
Author visnaga Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 thanks pretty baby you are right, it really worked I guess I have to forget about it and again thanks to all who have replied
westernxer Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I don't want to know how ugly or handsome you are, but I do want to say that you shouldn't dwell on shallow remarks from petty individuals. So glad I'm not in my early '20s anymore. LOL
kaiser2001 Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I think I am ugly because some girl told me so I am really working hard to make myself look better I have lost around 100 pounds and still trying to lose another 50 Thanks all for your comments I am really better now:rolleyes: Dude, that girl is not worth the effort of you getting upset. Unfortunately the only way some people are able to feel good about themselves is by making others feel like crap and it sounds like "some girl" is one of those people. My advice - forget about "some girl" and make sure you never spend any more time around her. Negative people are like a virus, they infect all around them and are bloody hard to shake off! Think about all you've achieved. Losing 100 pounds is no mean feat! I'm sure "some girl" would never be able achieve something of that magnitude. Focus on what you have achieved and not what other people spew out of their mouths. One last thing, what you type and say is often a subconscious reflection of how you think. Now I don't want to go all Buddhist on you but in your post you said "I have lost around 100 pounds and still trying to lose another 50". This gives me the impression that there is some doubt in your mind about whether you will be able to lose the remaining 50. What you should be typing is "I have lost around 100 pounds and I'm well on my way to losing another 50". Doesn't sound like much of difference but to your mind they are like chalk and cheese. Actually what you should be thinking is "I have lost around 100 pounds and I'm well on my way to losing another 50. And when I get to my goal weight I'm going to be one hot stud that no girl in her right mind would be able to resist!!" Probably best not to say that out loud or post it on the forum but I hope you get my drift. Change your thoughts and you'll change your life (easier said than done!) Ok enough waffle from me.
Ariadne Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Am I really that ugly? http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/visnaga/Image021-1.jpg No, you look normal. Btw, I can see you can be a really funny guy from your photo.
V.Vixen Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 No, you're not ugly, a smile would make you look MUCH better though. I can't tell you how much difference a happy attitude makes in a man. A man with a beaming smile, especially directed at me, makes me . Also, stop listening to what one person thinks about you! if you can't find good things in yourself, no one else will find them either.
Author visnaga Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 Thanks all I am really better now Your words are very inspiring
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