jtaime Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Okay.. a few of our friends has been questioning us about our 'relationship'. I've met this guy online almost 12 years ago when I was studying in UK and we were mere friends for a couple of years, we both had our own relationships with others during that time. So when I began working 2 years after that we were in the same city and saw more of each other and subsequently got together. I must admit I was young then and was very demanding and unreasonable. Our relationship broke off after 2 years but then we made up 6 months later, with me working on correcting my attitude. Somehow during the course of the 'relationship', sex was non-existent as I do not feel sexually attracted to him anymore.. we dont hold hands, kiss or anything like that. We've spoken about this a ton of times and has never reached a conclusion. To date, we still see every nite for dinner after work when we have nothing on the agenda, bowling, movies, diving when he can, and when he won a trip for 2 recently, he automatically invites me. We dont argue or fight, it's just comfortable. We live in the same block of condo.. so we help each other out.. it's just strange. After the relationship has gone stale, I have gotten into a few serious relationships, but he hasnt been seeing anyone at all. I've come to think we're just very very good friends.. but I could be wrong?? He stands by me whenever, and I must have done something really really good in life to deserve a friend like that. He knows I'm seeing someone now.. still he here's for me!! But he never bad mouths anyone unless he feels that person is really a douche bag. What do you make of this?
Thornton Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Sounds to me like you're just really good friends who should never have been more than that.
Author jtaime Posted July 26, 2009 Author Posted July 26, 2009 Thanks Thornton.. I think so too.. reading a similar thread, it's incredibly close to what's happened to me. And I know I will have a hard time dealing with the 'letting go' when he finds his SO.. let's hope I'd become wiser by then!
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