moo Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 a and d, the fact that you tried to communicate with him effectively with no insults is great. Me, I could not. I was too upset. But what you did is great. Use those communication skills for your next relationship. My ex gave me a few lines, but nothing much else...nothing comforting. I know he treated you like you were dead to him. I actually wrote that in an email I sent to my ex. But no matter how bad you feel about it, you are just going to have to deal with it. You are going to feel like sh*t and he won't relieve your suffering. But the more you do to help yourself, the quicker you will get over him, even though it will take a long time. You are clinging to the fact that if he contacts you, you will feel better. But now, you have to find other avenues to feel better. Besides, he sounds untrustworthy. He may just lie to you. Today, find something to make you feel better. Go to an art museum, go to the ocean, go to the store and buy art supplies and do something awesom or fun: paper mache, fingerpaint, draw a pretty picture. Do something fun...REALYY fun. Search your roots, starting today. Find out some info about your great grandmother. Searching your roots is very time consuming. Do something that will give some pleasure or provide some interest. Do it today.
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