love_darlings Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I noticed my sister yesterday was not feeling well. So I asked her why she is sad. She told me that her closest classmate courted her the other 2 months. Her answer to him at that time was "No". She said that she just considered him as a friend and she was not yet ready to fall for him. However, these days my sister get jealous to her classmate when she see him with his girlfriend. This time she is now in love with him and now ready to fall in love. For the fact that she knows that this guy is not serious to his girlfriend. This guy keeps telling my sister that he is still in love with her. The question is: What should be the best thing she should do this time?
onefunnybabe Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 she is only interested in him because he's no longer available. I'm sure if he were single again, she'd probably lose her interest in him. why are you so concerned with your sister's love life? That to me is something to ponder
Author love_darlings Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 she is only interested in him because he's no longer available. I'm sure if he were single again, she'd probably lose her interest in him. why are you so concerned with your sister's love life? That to me is something to ponder I just want to see my sister happy again.
whichwayisup Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Then tell her to find someone else. This guy and her are playing the cat/mouse game. Each want what they can't have at the time of interest. I bet if he all of a sudden became 'free' and single, she would change her mind. Mention to her that she SHOULD be happy, she doesn't need a man to complete her or make her 100% happy.
Thaddeus Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 she is only interested in him because he's no longer available. I'm sure if he were single again, she'd probably lose her interest in him. I bet if he all of a sudden became 'free' and single, she would change her mind.These posts nail it. It's the old "wanting what you can't have" syndrome. It's happened to me too, more often than I'd care to admit. Besides, the OPs sister already turned him down. And, as a gentleman, he took her at her word and found a partner elsewhere. She will be better off if she does the same.
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