Lill Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I’ve had the same friend since I was 4 years old, my first kiss, my first boyfriend, first teenage sex, getting to know each other and all, but things didn’t work out between us, at least not in a “socially approved” kind of way…but here we are, 34 years later, I’m married, with a kid, his married with a kid, both happily married, if I may add… and still on each other whenever we have a chance… we melt every time we see each other, or talk on the phone, our pants drop! literally!! The cool thing about it is that there’s no commitment, no jealousy involved, just lust, great feelings, awesome memories, behind every door, during dinner parties, our spouses outside, we’re out and like nothing, talk and laugh… The secrecy, the all time forbidden love…We feel good about ourselves… Ok, no judging please, I really believe that you should do things that really make you happy… No regrets.
whichwayisup Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 So why are you posting? What is it that you're looking for? You seem OK about cheating on your husband and betraying your family unit for your ex.. And you don't feel bad about it at all. Why post? Sorry, but it makes no sense to me why someone would come and post, be proud that they are cheating on their spouse and helping someone else cheat on their spouse as well. Sooner or later you two WILL be caught. Maybe it's for the best so you two can get back together again and your spouses can find love with someone else.
MizzBlue72 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 This is hard for me ... it may be something that you need to walk away from. Although you may think this hurts no one, it does. Especially if you or he has feelings. I just think that if you really feel this way, tell him.
Mino Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 this is hard for me to understand, I think most of us ow have regrets, have pain in our hearts, I also think MM, over long term have the same pain. There comes a time were its no fun (A) its hard work, and fusterations on both sides. I cannot imagine what the bs goes through.So for you to come here and say how much fun it is and no regrets.. unbelievable...Are you a human? I went nc, BECAUSE it was unbearable, couldnt do it one more day... You have been doing this how most of your life? I don't get it... I guess if I thought like you, I could be happy now... but no... I no, I deserve more.
norajane Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I really believe that you should do things that really make you happy… No regrets. Does that include your husband? Would you be happy for him if he were banging someone else, too? And will you still feel good about yourselves when you are caught behind one of those doors, and your spouses are devastated and your children end up with divorced parents?
NoIDidn't Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 This isn't an affair - just two horny neighbors that hook up under dangerous circumstances. Classic FWB. No love involved right now, so its all about the *rush*.
2sunny Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 maybe your husband is doing his wife too? who knows... i smell a troll...
Author Lill Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 This isn't an affair - just two horny neighbors that hook up under dangerous circumstances. Classic FWB. No love involved right now' date=' so its all about the *rush*.[/quote'] Exactly!!! At last some gets it! It's all about the *rush* nothing else..
Author Lill Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 Troll it is, I didn't even imagine that in this 21st century there would be so many judgmental people out there, besides, if there is no guilt, why even bother... I bet anyone would die to be in our position, to have excitement in ones life is not a sin, I believe it is a must! Life is pretty boring if you follow everyone everywhere everytime.
bentnotbroken Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Troll it is, I didn't even imagine that in this 21st century there would be so many judgmental people out there, besides, if there is no guilt, why even bother... I bet anyone would die to be in our position, to have excitement in ones life is not a sin, I believe it is a must! Life is pretty boring if you follow everyone everywhere everytime. No guilt, no conscious or integrity. And just for your info, people have died to be in your position....literally.
sally4sara Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I guess I was the only one who thought the post was about two guys having an affair behind their spouses backs. Every once in a while LS really delivers with that sense of how much your own problems really are not so problematic, you know?
angie2443 Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 I guess I was the only one who thought the post was about two guys having an affair behind their spouses backs. Every once in a while LS really delivers with that sense of how much your own problems really are not so problematic, you know? Wow! This never entered my mind, but why not? It's certainly possible. It's also possible that this might be a troll. It seems funny to me that someone would post something like this.
norajane Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Troll it is, I didn't even imagine that in this 21st century there would be so many judgmental people out there, besides, if there is no guilt, why even bother... I bet anyone would die to be in our position, to have excitement in ones life is not a sin, I believe it is a must! Life is pretty boring if you follow everyone everywhere everytime. So you're ok with your husband f*cking around behind your back?
eyeswide Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Good for you. I imagine you must look like a couple of clowns when your pants just drop to the floor. I bet your spouse would roll on the floor in hysterics at your clown antics. Tell me, is there any kind of protection under those breakaway trousers? Do you have magic STD shield along with your magically melting clothes? Cause my guess is that, even if he's your only fling, you may not be his...
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