shanemike88 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I don't usually do this but I need other peoples opinions that arent biased so here is my story. My ex girlfriend and I started dating when I was 15 and she was 17. We were the classic case of best friends who dated, we went to high school together you know the same old song and dance. A few months before we broke up we were looking at engagement rings and apartments to move into. Anyway it never happened because we broke up in August of 07 I was then 19 turning 20 she was 21 turning 22. When we broke up it was really tough on me I went through the highs and lows as some would say the normal road. My ex however in November of 07 3 months after we broke up met a guy and moved in with him. This took an even bigger toll on me knowing that my bestfriend and the one person I truely loved just acted like nothing happened and she never missed a beat. Even when we broke up we still kept in contact having conversations the consisted of things like how we missed each other and we wish we could be together. I even went through a period of trying to get her back and I was unsuccessful. This past winter my ex and her current boyfriend got engaged, again I was hurt and we have mutual friends so I heard about it a lot which I tried my best to play it off that I was ok. I even sent her a text saying congrats. So anyway I was out last night and at around midnight my phone vibrates and its my ex. I was shocked because shes engaged and shes living with her fiance. So I had a few drinks and texted "hey why dont you come over". When I get home at 1 a.m. shes outside of my house. We talked for about 3 hours. It was like that feeling came back of when we were together. At one point when she was leaving she started to cry and she said she didnt think seeing me would've had this effect on her (I'm not sure exactly what that means). We even kissed like the little peck kiss. I just dont know what to do because I miss her and i'll always love her but she misses me as a "friend". She gets married next May and I couldnt just be her friend thinking that she is marrying the wrong person. I'm a junior in college I know I'm not ready for marriage but I feel like the love of my life is somebody else's. I just need some tips!
whichwayisup Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Let her go.. I know it hurts and you love her, but it's best to let her go. Why did you two break up? And who broke up with whom afew years ago?
Author shanemike88 Posted July 29, 2009 Author Posted July 29, 2009 We were fighting a lot towards the end and I think we wanted different things. She wanted to get married and I wanted to finish school and have some type of career before I made that jump. We talked again after all this and she basically she said she didnt want to speak to me again because she could end up losing her fiance. I mean if it took this to realize that then I think thats just plain selfish. I just dont understand why she contacted me...I dont know why I even gave her the time to answer her back because it brings nothing positive on my end.
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