cutepinkblob Posted July 23, 2009 Posted July 23, 2009 Basically, my ex boyfriend went on holiday on the 30th of june, ages ago now! That was the last time i saw him. He came back on the 16th but literally got off the plane and dumped me, he claimed i was too much stress. Thankfully, i didn't really do the whole text terrorism etc. and i initiated No Contact (through a email saying that i will contact him once im ready) on the 17th. Now its been nearly a week and im pretty sure he really doesn't care. He is the type of bloke who really doesn't regret anything or worry about anything so i seriously don't think he is thinking about me! Now, this is my question, can anyone tell me like any ideas or hints of how to tell a guy still thinks of you. All i had was yesterday, a text saying that he received the t-shirt i sent him (his t-shirt obviously) and thanks for doing so! Is that anything? I know im meant to be improving myself and i am, its just so stressful when your ex is a "im really not bothered" kind of guy! Haa Thankss x
NopeNah Posted July 23, 2009 Posted July 23, 2009 Not much in his text that says anything. Stay NC and continue on with your life. If he wants you back he will let you know.
getbackwithex Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Praying4daylight is right. Do not make any attempt to contact him. One week is not even close to enough time. I know it will be hard, but you need to forget about him for at least a month or two and begin to heal. It will also show him that you are moving on with your life. After that time, ask yourself if you still want him back. If you, do then you can contact him again. Also, this may be hard to hear, but if your impression of him is that "I'm really not bothered" then he may not have really cared for you in the way you care for him. The type of man you should want to be with will show a sensitive side, or a jealous side once in a while. If he had or has any feelings for you at all, your silence will be heard loud and clear.
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