CaliGuy Posted July 23, 2009 Posted July 23, 2009 Island, that is truly the best advice. If someone walks away from you, the best thing you can do for yourself is LET THEM. They did indeed prove they are incompatible and did YOU a big favor by not wasting YOUR time on someone unworthy of your love and affection. NC is truly the best way to handle it because they no longer deserve any of your time. I personally believe they should be shut out of your life. Once they walk away, they give up any right to your personal life or any of the perks they once had when they were with you. I know some people disagree, but as long as you are still in love with that person, trying to be their "buddy" is a win/loss situation. They win, you lose. What you want is WIN/WIN. They leave you alone, you leave them alone. You both are free to find someone who truly appreciates you.
redhighheels Posted July 23, 2009 Posted July 23, 2009 Obviously ignore her, now and as long as you live. She'll get the message eventually. Her behaviour towards you doesn't even deserve a lousy "Hello". That being said, get off your psychology high horse. This perception of yours that you are somehow privy to some higher knowledge that escapes us, mere mortals, it's quite annoying.
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