Author You'reasian Posted July 26, 2009 Author Posted July 26, 2009 Why would you date someone you've met who is overweight? By this I mean 40+ lbs more than a healthy range for their height/build. Personally I find it difficult to initially be attracted to this, but I'd like to pick LS's brains to find some reasons. What qualities do you look for - physically, mentally and emotionally? In the past I've been willing to overlook the issue as I've dated women who were curvy or somewhat bigger, but I think the more I date, the pickier I get - maybe others agree? The reason why I created the thread was to see how much stock we put in the intangibles - personality, capacity to be a good partner, trust etc. A person can be overweight and attractive, if they carry their weight well - if they work at reducing their weight - if they possess positive personality traits. The thread was not intended to offend in any way or manner.
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