trahison Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Alright, so I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, after being her bff for four. We get along really great, everything's fine and we love each other a lot, etc. But we haven't done anything past holding hands and closed-mouth kissing. I honestly don't think I'm 100% prepared for the whole physical aspect but seriously, I'm getting kind of frustrated. I always feel like I'm kissing my aunt or something when we do kiss because it's always just a peck or something. I know for sure she's attracted to me and I'm def attracted to her but I think it's a situation where we both want to do something but neither of us want to be the one to initiate, lol. The problem is it's my first relationship everrr and I have no idea what to do and I don't want to try to start something and completely fumble and make a total ass out of myself. It's her first too so I dunno if she's in the same boat or what. I've considered talking to her about it but like, what am I supposed to say? "Want to try with tongue next time"? Seriously. I feel really dumb just thinking about it. Maybe I should just resign myself to a sexless existence. : ( So what should I do? Should I just like SPRING her sometime and try my best not to mess up or should I try talking to her about it? I'm not eager to do either because 1) I don't know what to do as I'm completely and utterly inexperienced and 2) I don't know what to SAY as I'm completely and utterly inexperienced. And embarrassed.
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