Author delajoonal Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 thank you Tojaz..i will check out that link:) gunny...yes you are right too...i absolutely wish i could be the wife/woman i am now, then...it may not sound like it in my posts..but i have learned alot about myself and the years and situations i could have done better or different...but then again, so could have my H...like NOT choose the computer over me... so i guess in essence..i have my closure, my answers... H is in a MLC as well as a horrible addiction...these are 2 things beyond MY control. so i have NO choice but to greive, deal, and move on....all i am saying, is it is NOT that simple or in that order... i love my H dearly, i must to have stuck around and dealt with his addiction.. so, i am grateful for this board, so i can learn from others, and also post my own thoughts, traumas, etc. have a great day ALL...i hope we are all tear free today;) (well, at least until noon...lol.)
Gunny376 Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 I never meant to imply that all of this is easy! Its not! Its all day hard! And although I may come across as implying such? That's not my intent! But oftentimes in life? You've got to get junk-yard-pit bull-mad dog mean about things and plow yourself through! My divorce was one of the hardest things I ever had to deal with! Divorce will bring you to your knees, and aside from the death of a spouse is the second most stressful things one can go through! I'm not going to sit here and say I will never marry again? But if you see my picture in the the Sunday papers talking about my getting married again? That's one wedding you want to pay good money to come and see. (Don't forget the extra large popcorn! ) And, I may get married again? Just to have someone to call 911 in my old age? Then again? There's LifeAlert! So you can live alone, without being alone!
Author delajoonal Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 gunny... LOL...thanks for making me laugh! i have my popcorn ready:0 p.s. i always know you mean well and are of military mind...so i appreciate that too:)
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