NopeNah Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 She's still been seeing her rebound guy since our break. As of yesterday she "wants us to be a family again and only see each other." She's breaking all ties with him today,so she says.. He's the only guy she's been with since our break.. I however have been dating 5 diferent girls. Not sure which way I want to go with this. On one hand, I'd like nothing more than to be with her and her son again. On the other, I have this feeling that things could end with her again on any given day. This is the hardest decision I've ever had to make. She did cheat on me and I'm not sure I can deal with that sh*t! blahhhhhh! just a vent!
SRTtoZ Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Id say give it some more time man...She sounds very confused on what she wants...and last thing you want is more heartbreak. I know how it is because if my ex said 'ok lets do it' id probably run to New rochelle faster than my car can drive...but at the same time you REALLY need to sit and think about it.
Chrome Barracuda Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 The last thing you need is a confused chick and if she's dealing with the guy she cheated with her words mean absolutely nothing!!!! Zero, zip, zilch, nada.
mark982 Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 do you REALLY believe her? why is everyone in a hurry? she's probable found out you're dating numerous women and is jealous. if you slow down and do some serious thinking,you'll avoid alot of future problems.
Author NopeNah Posted July 22, 2009 Author Posted July 22, 2009 do you REALLY believe her? why is everyone in a hurry? she's probable found out you're dating numerous women and is jealous. if you slow down and do some serious thinking,you'll avoid alot of future problems. I do but, don't..that's what I'm going to do..take a bit and see what happens.
CM2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Put it like this bro, if you love her and still want to be a family again then by all means go for it. But only if you feel that you can trust her.
Author NopeNah Posted July 22, 2009 Author Posted July 22, 2009 Put it like this bro, if you love her and still want to be a family again then by all means go for it. But only if you feel that you can trust her. That's the thing she's going to have to prove to me. Right now i'm still a little cautious/scared. It was only last night when we talked. I've been avoiding her for the past few weeks and living my life for me again. We'll see how she acts and if she holds up her end by letting completly go of the other guy, like she said she was going to do. She gave me the " I can't get you outta my head. Even when I'm with him you're the one I wish I was with" speach.. Guess I'll see how I feel after this sets in a bit, then go from there...still unsure at this point though.
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