earner Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Hey people, Basically I bumped into my ex gf on Saturday night in the bar where she works (she wasn’t supposed to be working) and had a few little chats with her, nothing heavy, pretty general. And yeah it was a bit awkward and weird (plus I was drunk!) but the thing was I though it would be completely different – I thought we would be both be upset, cuddling and telling each other 'Ive missed you' but to be honest I don’t really think there was any spark from either side. Now im not sure if that was cause she was working, we were both shocked to see each other, she was angry that I went to her workplace, that I was drunk or that in fact there is nothing there anymore. It may have done me a favour seeing her as these past 2.5 months I have been in bits and telling myself that she is the best thing ever and that I love her to death and that all I want is her back but after seeing her Im not actually sure that is true anymore! I don’t know its really weird and I feel confused now. But I think surely if there was some love there still then wouldn’t seeing each other have brought back all the old feelings? Any thoughts on this ?
boogieboy Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Dont be confused! your head is alot clearer than it used to be, and now you see her for who she really is. You realized that she isnt as great as you thouight she was. Its a good thing. Youve moved on and your brain isnt obsessed with her anymore.
Ariadne Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Any thoughts on this ? Guys get over relatively fast. They miss the gfs the most when they break up and go, oh, she's the best, how can I have lost her.. to thinking of the next one the moment they meet another girl. Seems like you are on your way to getting over.
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