azraf Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 We've broken up close to two months after a 2 years plus relationship.It was hard for me at first with all the grieving and losing weight, the whole shebangs with break ups. Ive managed to pick up the pieces and tried to move on. though its hard, ive managed to regained myself mostly by going on NC for 3 weeks, going to the gym, going out with friends, holidays and ensuring that i put on my best look,clothes etc. I was the dumpee btw so, it wasnt easy at first. We were keeping light contact and i thought that was the best way to not completely shut down. we texted and called like once or twice a week and coversation was kept very friendly and normal. So ive managed to be ok again. however, last week i received a phone call from my ex but i didnt pick up. ex called back, i asnwered and at first we spoke like normal. suddenly the ex broke down to tears and said "ever since we broke up my life is in a mess and i am always feeling uneasy and my friends think i am so stupid for leaving you". i replied back "dont be sad, ive forgiven you long time ago and know that i never stopped loving you and that you will always have a special place in my heart" to which my ex just kept quiet and said she gotta go and hung up. That phone call sorta made me feel uneasy because i really dont know what the ex meant by that?does the ex wants to get back?we didnt talk after that and it has been a week. just when im felt like ive moved on,this thing had to happen. i am not insanely bothered by it but couldnt help but to feel a tinge of hope for reconciliation. i really dont know though im not counting on it. ive actually tried 3 times to get back with the ex when we first broke up but the respond i received was we're better off being bestfriends. we still say "i love u' in our text messages but ive stopped hoping and moving on.FYI, ex cheated on me and in a way i got dumped when i found out. any advice is welcomed. i just dont know what to do.
ea7 Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 my ex does the same thing and we kept getting back together and she would break up with me just when i thought things were good me and her were in a almost 3 year relationship also and she left me various times yet she always comes back at the worst time we broke up this sunday and i came to reAilize that that was the last time i would take it i love her but i never did nothing to deserve wat she put me through i was told u eat what u dish out so shell enjoy that meal later on in life meaning karmas a bitch so my advice is b strong move on shes not the first or the last girl good luck
ea7 Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 another thing i forgot to add she also cheated on me and basically broke up with me when i found out
lkjh Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 If someone cheats on you and breaks up with you then you should be happy. Why would you want to be with someone who does that?
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