BoredPerson Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 I bought new shoes. I bought new clothes I try not to speak very often Let the girl speak first I don't know, what else can you do ?
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 You got an outer makeover. Time for an inner one. Your appearance and demeanor are one thing, but your inner motivations and confidence are going to be what draws them in.
JUSTdaNCE Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 A girl is not going to like you just cause you have new clothes or new shoes. Believe it or not... not all girls like to speak first. Both of you have to have good conversation towards each other. If the girl always talks to much, we think we are boring the guy if he doesn't talk much back. Your personality and confidence (as Lucrezia said) are whats going to pull her in.
Woggle Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Be yourself and build your own life up. Don't even worry about making women like you and you will have better success with them. Your current approach of letting her speak first and not speaking unless spoken to will only culiminate in you being a doormat for females.
espec10001 Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Can't make a girl like you. She either likes you or she doesn't. Be yourself and don't try to 'appear' like you got it together when in reality you are just craving attention.
burning 4 revenge Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 WHat you need to do is get some rope and tie them until they like you
Thaddeus Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 Be yourself and build your own life up. Don't even worry about making women like you and you will have better success with them. Your current approach of letting her speak first and not speaking unless spoken to will only culiminate in you being a doormat for females.There's a lot of good advice in this thread but this one sums it up nicely. The best you can do is to be the best man you can, regardless of whether you'll think it will attract women or not.
samspade Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 I bought new shoes. I bought new clothes I try not to speak very often Let the girl speak first I don't know, what else can you do ? Be confident. Own your sexuality. Stop giving a damn if any girl likes you or not. Love yourself. Hit the gym. Find hobbies. Be ambitious. Be interesting. Be funny. Approach women. Listen to them. Enjoy them. I know people say "be yourself" as a way to say "don't be a phony," which is good advice. However, "be yourself" can also be lazy advice. Be the man you want to be. That means, simply, keep improving. If you want to be charming, outgoing, attractive, and mysterious, you CAN be all of those things, but it requires you to change your attitude and some of your methods. The key is for you to pursue the life that makes YOU happy. Do this, and your charisma and happiness will be authentic and irresistible, and not a facade. Have fun.
Trialbyfire Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 There's nothing wrong with some retail therapy, as well as improving externals, to help supplement your internals. Refer to samspade's advice, for the balance of improvements, but a little at a time. Break your self-improvement project into bite size pieces, so you allow yourself time to incorporate those changes into yourself, without getting overwhelmed or bitter about it, if it's not working right away. These need to be core changes v. superficial nods to where you want to go. In other words, live it and breath it. Good luck!
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