lorilynne Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 I know I shouldn't be thinking about this but...here it goes. Would be reasonable for a woman to meet a man, within two weeks fall in love with him and proclaim you want to spend the rest of your life with him and stay with him when he tells you the next day his ex-girlfriend is pregnant? Of course, she doesn't realize I became his ex-girlfriend the same day I told him I was pregnant, coincidently the same day they discovered they want to spend the rest of their lives together. I think if I were in her shoes I'd bail. Again, I know I shouldn't care & I'm sure he hasn't been honest with her about one bit of all of this!
Thomas X Forever Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 A). The girl your ex is talking about, doesn't exist or B). He has over exaggerated the amount he cares about her, in order to manipulate you.
Author lorilynne Posted July 22, 2009 Author Posted July 22, 2009 Thanks...i think i'll try to sleep now. Pretty successful day. Cried in the therapist's office and came home and stayed in bed wayyyy to long but then I finally got up, went to the park to jog, did laundry & paid bills! Real life stuff. You know this pain feels like hell but I know deep down inside there are worse things that can happen. I made a list of things to do for tomorrow(therapist's suggestion). Didn't put "lie around and feel sorry for myself" on the list, so I guess i can't do that! LOL
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