bluejeanbebe Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 what do you do with his leftover things and how do you get them back to them? I have about a boxload of stuff that he left at my house (he thought that he took everything that was his I suppose)- but I've been going through some things and I keep coming across items that belong to him. Plus a magazine of his came in the mail yesterday. On top of that, I'm thinking about sticking the ring he gave me in the box too (no, not an engagement ring) just to be mean. It's all still painful- he left about 3 weeks ago. We have no mutual friends- so that's not a possibility. As far as I know, he moved back in with his mother, so dropping it off at that house really isn't a good idea either (she never liked me anyway). Aside from his regular job, he might still be working on a house one day a week that's near my office- I'm thinking about doing a drive-by- just run up real quick and leave the box by his truck. It seems juvenile to me but it's all I can think of. We haven't spoken since he left. I don't think I can handle seeing him without falling apart- so much anger and sadness. Not sure what to do? The pain has clouded my judgment and I'm trying to refrain from doing anything.
hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 look leave dat shyt if u can whereever he may be dont matter if u call him or not get rid of it unless u wanna keep it
georgia girl Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 If I were you, I'd box it up, throw it in the attic or wherever or put it out with a trash sticker on it. To be honest, it's his stuff. If he isn't responsible enough to come get it, then he can do without it. If you really want to be nice, set up a pickup time and then don't be around. I left my ex's stuff in the garage and told him when I wouldn't be home with the expectation that this would be the only time he was welcome to come get it. He waited a full week before he finally came and honestly, I think he tried to come when I WAS home, but I didn't let him. Your best revenge is living well. His stuff - while it hurts to have it around - isn't your problem. Just get it out of your sight so it doesn't bother you! Hugs... it's a nasty time right now!!!
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