nama Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Hi guys, Having learnt from my own actions and what other people have said about me... I am a control freak. I want to plan everything, control things so they are how I want them to be. I don't even understand why I do this. I have been like this for yonks so when people say 'stop being a control freak' how the **** do I do this??? I also have this inability to relax. I'm always planning something. Is anyone else out there a self confessed control freak? How did/ do you deal with it???? Thanks x
Thaddeus Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Used to be. Not anymore. That aspect of my personality served me very well in business and I made a lot of dough, but when it started creeping into my personal life I was reminded by a close friend that business is not life, and life is not business.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 practice letting others be in control.... like when going to eat, let someone else choose.
Author nama Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 I can give up on small things but anything else I feel 'powerless'. I feel as though I'm being submissive or not being my true self.
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