Lishy Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 My ex who cheated on me and broke my heart into a million pieces has started calling and texting telling me he loves me so much :rolleyes:and how he kicks himself every day for how he treated me:rolleyes:, how he knows he cant take it back but he has changed how he knows I am the best girl for him and he will never meet better how he cried last night thinking about the good times we had and he spoke to his friend about it He said that karma is biting him on the arse now! Too little, too late and let me tell you how much I would have loved to have heard those words 6 months ago! How times change, I never thought I would feel so nonchalant towards him but all things come to those who wait!
WiseOne1 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 My ex who cheated on me and broke my heart into a million pieces has started calling and texting telling me he loves me so much :rolleyes:and how he kicks himself every day for how he treated me:rolleyes:, how he knows he cant take it back but he has changed how he knows I am the best girl for him and he will never meet better how he cried last night thinking about the good times we had and he spoke to his friend about it He said that karma is biting him on the arse now! Too little, too late and let me tell you how much I would have loved to have heard those words 6 months ago! How times change, I never thought I would feel so nonchalant towards him but all things come to those who wait! So your saying that he wants you back after 6 months? Did you do NC, did you two stay in contact the entire time?
Author Lishy Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 I went mad when I found out and did some silly things but then I ignored him, ignored every text and call and let him get on with it ... He soon saw what side his bread was buttered on! But too late buster!
Author Lishy Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 Lol TBF I know you said that! The thing is that I am a bit evil and now I rub in his face the good times we had and then sigh and say "Shame you ruined all of that" I can hear him swallow on the phone! Awww poor boy might know what heartbreak feels like now! He should have thought of that when he was warming his penis inside someone else! He told me I have left a scar on his heart and that he knows he will never meet anyone like me and that the only women he has ever loved is me and his mum! Yep ... Karma is a bitch! lol
Soul Bear Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 i was going to ask the same question.... NC or LC... i know it happens when its to late, so i guess it doesnt matter either way...but i am curious .... btw- im happy for you sbx
WiseOne1 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Lol TBF I know you said that! The thing is that I am a bit evil and now I rub in his face the good times we had and then sigh and say "Shame you ruined all of that" I can hear him swallow on the phone! Awww poor boy might know what heartbreak feels like now! He should have thought of that when he was warming his penis inside someone else! He told me I have left a scar on his heart and that he knows he will never meet anyone like me and that the only women he has ever loved is me and his mum! Yep ... Karma is a bitch! lol Lol warming his penis...lmao? Gosh I know how you feel though, so how long do you think he will keep this up?
gd26 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Uggh... don't ever go back to a cheater. You are so much better off without someone like that.
Author Lishy Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 I would never go back! No way! I dont care how long he keeps it up, he is getting nowhere fast and I will make him feel as bad as I can every time he calls ... He has just text me actually!
gd26 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 While I understand the ego boost would feel good, I wouldn't even bother at this point with trying to rub it in or make him feel bad. I would think it simply better for him to remember you as a classy lady who he lost through his own behavior, not as someone playing her own games. No amount of rubbing it in will ever make up for the heartache that those of us here went through. I wouldn't think it worth to even bother talking with him.
WiseOne1 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 I would never go back! No way! I dont care how long he keeps it up, he is getting nowhere fast and I will make him feel as bad as I can every time he calls ... He has just text me actually! Lishy I understand you 100%, I went through the same feelings with a EX GF, who left me along time ago, maybe around 5 years ago, she dated around, and found out that the guys she was interested in only wanted her for sex, she tried to come back like 2 years later and it was the biggest EGO boost ever, I was on cloud 9. So yea I played around with her because the feeling was a natural high without any type of drugs. So you don't think you could ever ever take him back, lol?
2sure Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 I was , not that long ago really - dumped by a guy I thought I adored. He knew exactly how I felt about him. He would go back and forth with me. Finally when I had stopped taking his occasional calls and moved onto someone else, who truly cared about me... He contacted me "pouring his heart out" , telling me how he didnt realize what he had with me, how lucky he had been, yada yada. He finally said: "I dont know what I was thinking" My response: "Yeah, me neither. I cant believe I felt that way about...well, you of all people. What was I thinking? " And I was 100% sincere.
Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Lishy, have you heard "Never Gonna Happen" by Lily Allen? Every time I hear that song, I think of you...
sunshinegirl Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Lishy, that's just awesome. What's more awesome is your total resolve to never ever ever get back together with him. I had one guy come back 2 years later saying he still had feelings for me. What a dope - he told me to move on, so I did. In the meantime I will enjoy the warm embers of your cheating ex groveling. Hopefully he will learn something from all this and become a better human being as a result.
sedgwick Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Woohoo Lishy! That's AWESOME! How long ago did you two break up? I'm so proud of you.
sedgwick Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Wow...January, and you're already over him? I just passed the two year mark and I'm still sad and lonely. You rock!!
Trimmer Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 My ex who cheated on me and broke my heart into a million pieces has started calling and texting telling me he loves me so much :rolleyes:and how he kicks himself every day for how he treated me:rolleyes:, how he knows he cant take it back but he has changed how he knows I am the best girl for him and he will never meet better how he cried last night thinking about the good times we had and he spoke to his friend about it He said that karma is biting him on the arse now! Translation: "I just got dumped." Can't believe nobody else picked up on that! He told me I have left a scar on his heart... What? YOU left a scar on HIS heart? Give me a break. That's bad poetry, even for a high-school english class. ...and that he knows he will never meet anyone like me and that the only women he has ever loved is me and his mum! Ewww. Ick. Did he really think that comparing his love for you with his love for his mom was going to be an impressive thing to say? He should have thought of that when he was warming his penis inside someone else! Now THAT . . . . . . . now that's poetry.
Author Lishy Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 They are my sentiments exactly Trim, I didnt take any notice of any of it! I halfed it, quartered it and forgot it! Also, he didnt get dumped he is still with the poor girl! I am so glad I am away from it and really cannot believe how severely heartbroken I was 6 months ago! I was in pieces! Silly me!
Trimmer Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Also, he didnt get dumped he is still with the poor girl! Well, it sounds like he's reached some kind of a tipping point, though... Anyway, glad that you're feeling calm about all of it...
Author Lishy Posted July 26, 2009 Author Posted July 26, 2009 He has been ringing me telling me he loves me so much and that he misses my giggles and they way we would talk and how he is heartbroken and will do anything to get me back!! It is amazing how 6 months after I find out he cheated on me and lied to me he is heartbroken! He rang me playing me songs down the phone that relate to missing me and telling me he wants to marry me!! I told him I would never marry a lying cheat and he was nearly crying telling me that when he thinks about what he did to me he feels physically sick and wishes he could turn back time! I dont believe a word of it!
FlyersFan Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 He has been ringing me telling me he loves me so much and that he misses my giggles and they way we would talk and how he is heartbroken and will do anything to get me back!! It is amazing how 6 months after I find out he cheated on me and lied to me he is heartbroken! He rang me playing me songs down the phone that relate to missing me and telling me he wants to marry me!! I told him I would never marry a lying cheat and he was nearly crying telling me that when he thinks about what he did to me he feels physically sick and wishes he could turn back time! I dont believe a word of it! OHHH I hope I get to experience this same thing. I was dumped 3 months ago for another guy. Had a huge fight in early June because I was in that "friends" zone and now have gone NC for 3 weeks.
Trialbyfire Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 He has been ringing me telling me he loves me so much and that he misses my giggles and they way we would talk and how he is heartbroken and will do anything to get me back!! It is amazing how 6 months after I find out he cheated on me and lied to me he is heartbroken! He rang me playing me songs down the phone that relate to missing me and telling me he wants to marry me!! I told him I would never marry a lying cheat and he was nearly crying telling me that when he thinks about what he did to me he feels physically sick and wishes he could turn back time! I dont believe a word of it!Yup, yup, yup, following the pattern of a lot of cheaters! Don't weaken Lishy. Not worth the future heartache.
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