lovesparis Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 ex is engaged. in uber-romantic "fairytale" setting ::sobs:: just really need some support right now. please
sedgwick Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Oh man, that really sucks. I'm so sorry. But just think about how awesome it will be when you meet someone way better and have your own romantic engagement!
Author lovesparis Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 thanks sedg, you and i have been on a pretty similar timeline breakup-wise as well as having similar difficulties getting over our respective ex's.. so i appreciate your support here ((( )))
on edge Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 I am really sorry OP. I just saw 500 Days of Summer, it might be good for you to go and see that movie. I think that it may help you see that this only one small part of your life (although tough), and that maybe it is for the best. One more thing, my ex is going from guy to guy to guy, and that hurts really bad. I almost would prefer it if she was in a monogamous relationship or even engaged, because she is hurting herself, and really embarrassing me.
iwanttolive Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 My ex is enganged too.. and thank God NOT to me! I can't imagine living the rest of my life with him, all the pain he put me through...
hew Posted July 22, 2009 Posted July 22, 2009 awh im sorry to hear you must have broken up for a reason though right ? i know the feeling its horrible, but within time things will become a memory and you wont be hurtin anymore... i can promise you that. and when i was just as heartbroken as you.. ( im not so much anymore ) peopel promised i would feel better to and i didnt believe it. but it does happpen!!!!!!! and you WILLLLLLL find someone wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy bettter for ya ! someone who wont leave you upset and care for you no matter what you guys go through. but gooodluck and you will heal so just remember never loose hope and there is light at the end of the tonel !
Author lovesparis Posted July 22, 2009 Author Posted July 22, 2009 thanks guys... i know maybe someday i'll feel better about this. it's been 2 years and my heart hurts as much with this news as it did when we first broke up. i sobbed in the shower this morning for about 20mins. i just hurt so much.
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