CD111 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Previously I posted about a guy that I finally met in person about a week and a half ago. He kept in touch during the previous weekend and then I hadn't heard anything from him all week. No big deal, I thought. He had invited my roommate and I to a concert his band was playing this past weekend and it seemed like he wanted us to go. Well, as of Saturday neither of us had plans for Sunday night so we decided to go. I checked the playlist online and they were the second band. I thought perfect, I could make it home at a decent hour and get ready for work Monday. Well we get there and they were the last band to play, definitely not convenient, but the other bands were cool, we were having a good time and the martinis were yummy. When their set comes up they are a no show and didn't call the venue to cancel. Odd I thought since this concert had been advertised for months. I was thinking hopefully, nothing bad happened. I text the guy, asking if they were going to play and he answered that half the band quit the day before, so no. Unfortunate, but a call, text...something would have been appreciated since he did invite us. Apparently I was the only one not to get the memo, no one else was there to see them. I wrote back with a "That's too bad" and that we were having a good time regardless and jokingly wrote that now he owed me one. After that the texts totally stopped. He's back off to finish his road trip and won't be back for a few weeks. I am beginning to lose interest and getting the it just wasn't meant to be feeling. Unfortunately for me he borrowed one of my favorite hoody's and still has it, grrr. Peoples perspectives would be greatly appreciated.
New Again Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Sounds like you've pretty much got it figured out, honestly. Sounds like for whatever reason he's not very interested. How come if half the members of the band left and they didn't play at that one venue, he's still on this road trip? Maybe I didn't understand something? Anyways, I'm guessing that a lot of crap must be going on with this guy personally if the band broke up - I'm assuming he's friends with the other members. That's probably causing him some stress. That's not an excuse for his behavior; I still think it sounds like he's not very interested - but that might explain why the venue wasn't informed and why he didn't let you know. But...the fact that you said he owed you one and he went silent says a lot. He's away, so just see other people and stop contacting him.
Author CD111 Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 Oh, to clarify, he left to finish the second leg of his business road trip this morning. It just seemed like he was pretty interested for a few weeks prior. Oh well
New Again Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Yeah I've had guys flake like that before...it's definitely confusing.
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