foxylady Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Hi am 54 and the man I am basically living with is 61 we have been going together for 3 years and living together for the last year. In the beginning he told me that I needed to give him time to grow to love me that he did not have those feelings. Over the years we have had the same discussion several times and I was told the same. Well here is my question I think I need to ask again if he has finally grew to Love and why he never says it. I also have never meet any of his family excluding his ex which doesn't even know about me, more pacific his adopted daughter which is also his grand daughter. So if he still says I don't know if I love you or not should I call it quites and move on? Thanks for reading this. Your replies are welcome
blueyedchika Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Three years & no I love you's???? I couldnt do that. If you dont mind me asking......what is this relationship based on? What is the glue that keeps you two together?
mark982 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 3 yrs,and never met his family? no "i love you's"? there's something wrong here. i'd ask him,if he still isn't sure well it's time to move on. how is the rest of the relationship?
Kasan Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Hi am 54 and the man I am basically living with is 61 we have been going together for 3 years and living together for the last year. In the beginning he told me that I needed to give him time to grow to love me that he did not have those feelings. Over the years we have had the same discussion several times and I was told the same. Well here is my question I think I need to ask again if he has finally grew to Love and why he never says it. I also have never meet any of his family excluding his ex which doesn't even know about me, more pacific his adopted daughter which is also his grand daughter. So if he still says I don't know if I love you or not should I call it quites and move on? Thanks for reading this. Your replies are welcome The fact that you are here asking this question leads me to believe that you already know the answer. Let's see....he is seven years older than you.......I see you ending up taking care of him and supporting him when he retires. Why would you even consider living another day in this situation? You have already spent three years living like this. How many more years are you going to spend waiting for his "magic" words? Me, I would be out the door in a heartbeat! Give him time to fall in love with me..........okay! What a guy!!:rolleyes:
redtail Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 etc... should I call it quites and move on? ... Yes Foxylady, you have our support, approval, agreement and whatever else you need. But I think you had your answer before you asked... Best of luck, I'm sure you can and will do better!
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