aloneanddepressed Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 What do you think of this? A guy who mostly has women on his Facebook account? Just curious what your opinions are......Thanks
EddieN Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 a) He's flaming gay. b) He friends thousands of random chicks. c) He's a player. d) He's trying to be a player (big difference) e) He's straight but simply clicks with girls much better. 95% is pretty high though.
Author aloneanddepressed Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 I don't know what it could be. I'm guessing he just likes "LOTS" of women, or maybe he is a player. Not sure about the gay thing though. I don't think thats it. a) He's flaming gay. b) He friends thousands of random chicks. c) He's a player. d) He's trying to be a player (big difference) e) He's straight but simply clicks with girls much better. 95% is pretty high though.
HappyAgain Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 My ex was like that and it was to feed his very low ego and self-esteem. He wanted to be a player but wasn't. He wanted his male friends to look up to him with jealousy and he was hoping out of the hundreds of women he befriended that one of them would sleep with him after I left him.
New Again Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Free "go to" pictures that won't infest his computer with 129823012 pop up ads for sexy web chats in his area?
Shygirl15 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 My ex was like that and it was to feed his very low ego and self-esteem. This is basically what it is, really.
Scarlett513 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 I'd stay away from that, I think. Something is off there.
lbk Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 HAHA!! my crush has that too - claims it's because he's insecure, but something is definitely off there. Need to get this self-centred idiot out of my head...
carhill Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 LOL, in my case, on MS, 100% of my friends are women. That happens when you're a married guy and have something women want. Everyone is your friend IMO, I wouldn't give it a second thought. It's just electrons...
Trialbyfire Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 What do you think of this? A guy who mostly has women on his Facebook account? Just curious what your opinions are......ThanksOnly your opinion matters to you. Understand what drives you and whether you can tolerate this. Myself, no thanks. Run, me, run!!
Die Hard Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 IMO, I wouldn't give it a second thought. It's just electrons... This is pretty much my opinion on the subject but I'll go even further: I have NEVER been asked by a guy if I have a facebook page, nor have I ever asked another guy if he has a facebook page and I sure as hell have never asked a guy to add me on facebook. The only males on my page are relatives. My page has 90 percent women because it's women who ask, and ask to be added.
You'reasian Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 What do you think of this? A guy who mostly has women on his Facebook account? Just curious what your opinions are......Thanks What do you think of this? I think we need more information. Just counted; I'm about 60/40 - female/male on my site, for instance. Women seem to prefer electronic communication in general. We guys can go for a long time without seeing each other, then meetup one day and be like "hey, lets grab a beer" and that's all we need. With female friends, there's more maintenance? But this depends on the woman I guess.
hoping2heal Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 What do you think of this? A guy who mostly has women on his Facebook account? Just curious what your opinions are......Thanks If It seems like these are women he legitimately knows and they seem to pay him a lot of flirty attention - I would say seems like he's a player. If it's just a bunch of women that don't really acknowledge him, and just accepted his friend request - He's trying to be a player. Both stem from being immature, insecure, and needing ego stroking. The difference is just that 1 hides it much much better than the other.
stillafool Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 What do you think of this? A guy who mostly has women on his Facebook account? Just curious what your opinions are......Thanks Maybe it means that women are "ga ga" over him.
looking4 green grass Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 This is only MY personal experience, but my ex had the same thing. There were lots of flirty messages with all the "xoxo" and "smooches" and "hey sexy/baby/honeycakes". Turns out it was all the girls he "dated" and he refused to get rid of any of them. I guess because he didn't have any real friends. Notice we are no longer together. The new crush had several girls leaving flirty messages when we first met, and one day, poof, he deleted them all and "defriended" them. I never said a word to him about it in the first place and to this day I haven't said anything. I'm simply happy they are all gone, I obviously have issues sharing a man! lol
You'reasian Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 This is only MY personal experience, but my ex had the same thing. There were lots of flirty messages with all the "xoxo" and "smooches" and "hey sexy/baby/honeycakes". Turns out it was all the girls he "dated" and he refused to get rid of any of them. I guess because he didn't have any real friends. Notice we are no longer together. The new crush had several girls leaving flirty messages when we first met, and one day, poof, he deleted them all and "defriended" them. I never said a word to him about it in the first place and to this day I haven't said anything. I'm simply happy they are all gone, I obviously have issues sharing a man! lol Yes, you come across as a little jealous but that's natural
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