Author TheIrishKid Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 stepka: Thank you for the kind words. I'm trying to do the right thing. I've never cheated on a girlfriend and I'd like to keep it that way. Loyalty is one of my big things. As horrible as it sounds, I find her mom tempting, which is exactly why I want to avoid putting myself in a bad situation as much as possible. So you would be flattered if you were in that position? Typically, though I've gotten a lot better around girls, when I'm uneasy around someone I find attractive I get nervous and shy more than "horndog" mode. It was just a concern of mine that her mom would detect that unease, realize I find her attractive, take that as a come on and then tell my girlfriend I hit on her.
prettybaby Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Dude, you're really over-thinking this. Just don't flirt with her and you'll be fine. I really doubt she'll get it, even if you're nervous.
jojojones Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Seems to me that you already know the answers! What you must put firmly in mind is that should you do anything, there isn't a happy ending. In other words it can ONLY be bad. I would suggest to your GF that the 3 of you spoend some time together before you are in that situation of entertaining her alone. My brother had a terrible crush on a work colleague a while back. He was married and otherwise happy, but became obsessed with this hot piece at the office. It really caused him problems in his own head. What he says "cured" him was imagining her farting constantly whenever he was in her presence. Just athought but it might help? A little like the public speaking advise of imagining everyone nude so you don't freak out at everyone watching you...
Author TheIrishKid Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 prettybaby: I could be. Though I don't know her mother too well because she lives out of state, the times we have been together there was a lot of flirting. My girlfriend was present all of those times, and it truly was in a spirit of good fun and simply trying to get on the good side of her parents, but I think she also sensed an attraction. It's for that reason I'm seemingly "over thinking." It's one thing to be that way when my girlfriend is around - quite another when I'm alone with her mom. jojojones: Ha! That's a funny strategy. I'll have to consider that. And yes, I'd much rather my girlfriend be present when her mom arrives but she can't because of work. That's part of the problem, I suppose. I can't really broach the subject with her. I doubt she'd respond well to my telling her I'm attracted to her mom, despite my honesty.
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