juliemanooli Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 I'm just curious, what do you guys think about the girl making the first move? I've been seeing this shy guy and I feel like he will never initiate anything.. So should I take control ? Or is that just too much?
kizik Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 Yes, make a move! Go in for the kiss. If he's too much of a puss to kiss back, you don't want him, anyway. BTW, you're a hottie!
New Again Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 Is this the same guy you posted about who said he'd definitely hook up with you but didn't know if he liked you? If so, clearly he'd like for you to make a move - he already expressed an interest in takin you down. More generally, IME, guys like when girls make a move - it's flattering and they don't have to do anything.
Thaddeus Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 It's so exceedingly rare that a woman makes the first move, which is really too bad. Men see assertive women as confident and unafraid to go after what they want. And that's 100% good. Go for it.
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