tomtom26 Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 I met a girl a couple of months ago. We hung out a couple of times in a group and we sorta hit it off. She then went on a trip for 5 weeks. We kept in touch via chat and email and chatted almost every other day. She just came back a couple of weeks ago. We have been in touch all this time. We met up a few times to hang out in person, once just for coffee, one day in the city just us, and another day hanging out with her friends. I feel things are going great. I feel that we both have interest in each other. She is somewhat of a conservative good girl and I don't know what my next move is. I have crossed the touch barrier by putting my hands on her shoulder and back, but no holding hands or cuddling. We haven't openly talked about US, nor have I made a strong enough move to show her that I want us to go to the next step. WHAT DO I DO? I don't want to screw this up. I want to make a move to show her that I see her in a different way, but I don't want to come on too strong. ANY ADVICE??
JUSTdaNCE Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 Lets look at things... You met her a few months ago... You hang out in groups of friends... You broke the touch barrier....(how did she react towards that?) A few months into things, I think its time to go out just the two of you. If you are really interested in this girl, show her before she starts to look at you as *just a friend*. Judge by how she reacts...watch the way she looks at you...the way she acts around you. Don't grab her and go into a full blown make out session when you drop her off...but be romantic about things. Kiss her on the forehead when saying goodnight or something like that. Move in a little at a time and judge by her reactions how far to take it the next time.
Thaddeus Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 WHAT DO I DO? I don't want to screw this up. I want to make a move to show her that I see her in a different way, but I don't want to come on too strong. ANY ADVICE?? Take the lead. Make a move, respectfully (of course). And do it quickly before she friend-zones you.
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