vring81 Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Just wanted to write it out thats its been two days since I've had any contact. It is hard sometimes, then I remember I have nothing to say to her. She hurt me more than I've been hurt and she doesn't deserve my breath. I still cant help but wonder what she is doing sometimes and just want to say hi, that's why I'm typing here instead I suppose.
redhighheels Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 The first days are always the hardest, it's something you have to get used to - not having a person you once cared for in your life anymore, that is. It'll get easier as time gets by, that much I can promise you. I can relate to not having anything to say, I think that's the main reason I didn't contact my last ex. Sure it would have been nice to hear his voice and go back to that familiar place all over again, but what comes after saying "Hi" in a conversation? Absolutely nothing, so why even bother thinking about it? Hang in there.
wontgohomewou Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 Just stay strong dude. I'm on day 40 something and it's not even hard anymore. After the first 3 weeks you will be fine, just seriously don't give in.
Author vring81 Posted July 20, 2009 Author Posted July 20, 2009 Last night the urge was so strong so I texted a friend instead and talked to her until the urge passed. so yay! I didnt give in...one day at a time
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