SweetyBear Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 So, I'm trying really hard just to take it for what it is, but my ex called me today. Interesting to me how it's just when you're moving on..of course, he'd gotten a letter I'd sent him in the mail that basically told him I'm not going to bother him anymore, but he knows I'll always talk to him if he wants to. It was a closure thing for me, so it's kind of weird that particular letter spurred him to finally call me. I'm a little upset with myself that I talked and talked. I wish I'd kept it more simple. I guess I was so surprised that he called that I wanted to cram it all in. He said he does want to work things out, but he brought up some past issues too. He's supposed to call me back again tonight. If he does I'm not going to get into anything serious, I will tell him I love him and see if he'll just call me again once he has time to actually sit down and talk. I am not, not, not going to try to pin him down on a date and time. I'm going to let him suggest one or not. If he doesn't, I will just leave it that I am very open to talking, I love him very much and I want him to call me when his schedule is a little more definite. I'm trying really hard to not give up my new found peace over the situation. Nothing has changed except that we've had a conversation, right? Nothing has been settled one way or the other, which is exactly what it was before we had the conversation.
mr.dream merchant Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Well before you go jumping into any conclusions give it some time. If he calls you he may want to work things out, he may want to work on your issues as a couple. You never know, but never say never. If he's coming to you, sit down, hear him out, and give him a chance.
Author SweetyBear Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 Thanks Mr. DM, I'm trying my best not to jump to any conclusion. I don't want to get my hopes up, but I don't want to get my defenses up either, you know? I love this man so much and he's not initiated contact with me for the three months of our breakup except a few times right at the beginning. One thing that is great is that I know I'll be okay either way. Whether we decide to be together again or we don't, I know I'll be just fine.
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