Battlewax Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Well 2 months after the break up. She's seeing somebody else. I laugh since I know it's a rebound and she can't see it. I did get some sort of closure since I finally got to speak my peace and I didn't have to hold back. While I didn't call her names I did say how I think the whole thing was bull****. I'm glad I could finally get that out. There was a dark cloud over my head for a long time because I wanted to say things and never got the chance. I finally got that chance. The cool thing is it's not in her nature to reach out and contact. I'm rather happy at that one. We don't hang in the same circles so after today I don't have to worry much about seeing her or even talking to her. I'm actually glad I saw a status change on Facebook. I hid her feed for a while but it popped up on the side. She has now been removed and everything that reminded me of her is gone. I don't mean hidden, I mean gone. I was angry but it gave me the chance to say what I've held inside for so long. I was making good progress too, until we texted last night. Which is ****ing comical since she texted me all night long then changes her status today. I'm good today. I can finally put it in the past and don't have to worry about false hope. I do not look forward to tomorrow. Dammit I hate this. Sadly right now I hate her. I'm patiently waiting for the day when I nothing her.
Exit Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 I'm with you, I just recently discovered that my ex has already found someone new. Do your best not to hate her. Like they say, "hate isn't the opposite of love, indifference is". Hating her is still using your own life force and wasting your energy thinking about her. Indifference is where you want to get, which you already realize. I think my ex might be having a rebound too, but unfortunately she has a track record for long relationships, and even this rebound could last a long time just so she can avoid facing her problems. But oh well.
Author Battlewax Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 LOL she kept contacting me. My final reply was leave me be. Everything else is being deleted.
New_life Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 We're in the same wagon... She told me a day before I love you and miss you... Next day bammm she puts photos and says theyre together. I dont think she did it out of hate in tellling me she loves me, because I gave her no reason to hate me... She is f´´ crazy and cold period. Well I say let them go, in a while we will be posting here that they are begging us back topic will read: HOw to avoid ex who wants another chance? Battle, eliminate her from the Facebook, she wants you as a backup... Focus on you, to hell why them, and as exit says no hate just say **** it.
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