gogarth Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 I posted here a few days ago about my ex-bf asking for a second chance, after dumping me last year. When he came back, he didn't seem to have a plan about how we're going to make things work, or even a clue about how he had hurt me when he walked out. We finally had "the talk." For the first time, I was honest about the difficulties I had after the breakup, and that he actions really hurt me. I needed time to trust him again. I naively believed that, if he really still cares about me, he would understand and perhaps put in the effort. He was sorry about what happened, said he didn't remember the things he did when he broke up with me. He still wants to see me. But then he sent me a text a couple of days later asking for more time to think things through. He went on and on about how important I am to him, that he doesn't want to hurt me again. He asked me to not read too much into things and just be patient and give him time. I'm so angry right now. I feel like he's going to reject me again. I feel like an idiot for allowing him to do the same thing to me again. I just feel sick to my stomach. Am I just too paranoid? Part of me wants to call and say, "don't bother rethinking it...I'm done." Should I?
SRTtoZ Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Firstly ask yourself...What do you want? If you're ready to risk (sometimes its worth it), and want to give him another shot...Then go with it. BUT dont let him be in control. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Tell him you dont want to force him to be with you but he has a decision to make. You WONT wait around for him. If you dont see yourself wanting to be with him..then end it. Simple.
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