kittie s. Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Okay, this will sound odd coming from someone posting in a forum, but let me explain. He got a new car recently and is carried away with learning all about it. That is completely okay! I love the fact that he has something new that he needed, and I don't care if he posts on forums about it! That part is fine. Get carried away all you want!! The part I'm getting annoyed/concerned about is his pure obsession with the forums now. Particularly one. He is constantly trying to arrange hangouts with members of the forum and stuff. Good, new friends! That's okay too. HOWEVER, where do I fit in the picture? Yesterday, I went to hang out with friends and sent him an e-mail around lunch time talking about how I was going out and I hoped he would have fun that evening when he goes out.. So I get home from the hangout pretty late, notice the no reply, so I send him an e-mail (as I said I would) to tell him a little about my night.I did this because we say our goodnights every night, either online or on the phone. Okay....so now...there is STILL no reply, but he's all over the forum this morning! Once again, posting with people about a possible meeting and stuff. And posting about random stuff...I know, this makes me sound like a stalker. But, I go to the forum sometimes too, and he knows that. So what is so interesting about a group of people he has never met that makes him not reply to his girlfriend's e-mails like that?
Bayern Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Perhaps he has found a pretty little theme he is excited about. Hopefully he will get over it quickly and remember again what is important in his life (you). I do the snooping you do (looking at his forums to see if he logged in) also, but I would suggest against it (hypocritical I know). In the end it just tells half a story where you base assumptions off, and it never really turns out good. If you want to confront him a bit about it, sure, but don't bring up the fact that you've been snooping around keeping tabs on him(my advice).
Author kittie s. Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 Haha, yeah. I hate when I do it. But when I don't hear from him, I get so curious that I can't stand it! I'll stop though. I have to, or I'll continue getting the wrong idea about things and it'll drive us both crazy!!! What's funny is the fact that he sent me an e-mail while I was typing the original post!
Bayern Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Haha, yeah. I hate when I do it. But when I don't hear from him, I get so curious that I can't stand it! I'll stop though. I have to, or I'll continue getting the wrong idea about things and it'll drive us both crazy!!! What's funny is the fact that he sent me an e-mail while I was typing the original post! See ? It only tells half the story Best of luck.
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